Slapping

Please help!! My 2 year has just started slapping me a few days ago. How do I stop this?

I’m worried as she is going to nursery 2 days a week and I don’t want her to do it to anyone else

Just now I’ve been slapped in the face so many times and one of them in particular really hurt!!!

I tell her no and that she can’t do that and explain why not and she just bursts out laughing. My expressions and the way I’m talking to her are not funny in the slightest so I’m at a lose. I’ve told her no, and raised my voice when I was in pain, but again she thought it was funny.

She just turned 2 in February.

It seems to just be me she’s doing it to.

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I found with both of mine, first slap I say 'no hitting' ....if they do it again,I repeat 'no hitting' then put them down for about 10 seconds then pick them back up......if they do it a 3rd time I put them back down and walk away. After a few days of doing this they soon get the message xx

Do you ? Don't let them watch anything that involves that . Try and hug or kiss your child when your child try that

And no

It's a phase. They grow out of it.

It's hard tho.

1. Kind and gentle hands and show them what that means. On a doll or toy or or them and even yourself.
2. Repeat over and over and over and over.......
3. If she does it after the 3rd time, I walk away, leave her there for a while on her own (if In a safe space)
4. Never say No. It's a challenge. Challenge accepted!
5. Keep at it. She outgrows it.

My LO did it from around 24 tot 26 months. She's now 28 months. Might occasionally do it still tho.
Also, I help her deal with the frustration.
Ask her why is she hitting you. Is she angry, and mimic anger. Is she frustrated, mimic that. Maybe tired etc? She can show you her feelings next time she feels it so that she doesn't have to hit you. Teach her emotions.

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