Dream feeding

My little one is 10 weeks tomorrow and I have started dream feeding him yesterday. ( it works wonders and slept 8pm-5:30am)

He is on 6ozs but I only offer 4ozs when I dream feed. I don’t want to burp him as I don’t want to wake him up. Is the any technique that I can do to burp him that won’t woke him up?

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If you slowly sit him 6 so that he is upright and make his back as straight as possible and hold him there for 10 seconds or so, the wind will come right up, that usually works for my little one xxx

thank you, he is normally a good burper. I’ll give it ago tonight

If it doesn't come up after 10 seconds you can gently and slowly wiggle him side to side (sat up with his bum still on your knee) x good luck, hope it works for you xxx

Also because they’re feeding so sleepily they tend to take in much less air! So I wouldn’t worry too much sometimes mine doesn’t bring up anything and he’s absolutely fine, I just hold him upright for 5 mins and rub his back to help everything go down xx

@Sarah did it work for you 🤞 xxx

some nights it does some nights he wakes up and then take ages to get him back to sleep x

Bless him, hopefully it will get bettwr with time xxx

My lb is on 5oz and only took 3.5/4 when I dream feed. I burped him halfway through at 2.5 ounce. And then he had another 1 and didn’t burp.

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