sex life

im super super early in my pregnancy. i started to notice that i haven’t been horny, like at all. i’m not sure why. any help or advice?

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Is this a problem at all?

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Hormones…..

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Yeah, it's normal, hormones changing. It comes back in the 2nd trimester according to some people, mine hasn't come back yet lol im 20 weeks.

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not so much a problem as it is just not normal for me

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That’s very normal. Your sex drive will likely pick up when you hit mid to late second trimester. Mine sure did before it plummets again in the 3rd trimester

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it does but it’s at the near end of second. Mine didn’t pick back up with both of my pregnancies until I was about 25-27 weeks. But it does die back out when you get 32-35, mostly because it just simply is too uncomfortable

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Think I hsd sex about three times during my pregnancy 😂🫠

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Mine comes and goes lol I’m 19 W but I’m sooo easily turned off now 😂

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I had no sex drive in my first trimester but once I hit the 2nd trimester it’s come back. It’s different for everyone but it should fluctuate throughout ur pregnancy

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I’m currently 27+6 and I think me and my partner have done the deed maybe twice in that time 😂 And that was in the first few weeks. Honeslty for me it was a mix of hormones and HG that have made me completely uninterested- but from what I’ve read online it’s not uncommon at all ❤️

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Im glad all the advice here is essentially “listen to your body”. You’re growing a literal human so your sex drive is going to fluctuate and there’s a myriad of “not normal” things you’re going to experience so just be gentle and patient with yourself.

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Same with me and my partner I haven’t been in the mood at all and I know it sucks for him but my hormones lowered my sex drive. I am 31 weeks and I feel it coming back kinda, I’m just ready to get back to normal.

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Wasnt into it first trimester, stared to at the beginning of my second trimester, at 20 wks it’s no longer enjoyable, everything is more sensible. Not sure how to tell my partner

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Mines dead in the ground hahaha x

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Im a little desperate already . Im not a huge fan on blowjobs but I’m doing it because I know he likes it . If he wants it in a car, during work meeting , on the balcony, on the beach everywhere I’m okay to do that . However, I’m not getting anything in return. I mean the last time he went down was more than 1.5 years ago . Okay, I was pregnant maybe he did not feel like doing it while I had a belly as he told me . , but I’m not pregnant already for awhile and I’m always telling him that I want him to go down and he is always having an excuse like “tomorrow “ etc . At the beginning it was funny and I was like okayyy but now it’s not as I’m not enjoying our sex in general . Like the process itself does not make me finish . As I’m breastfeeding and super dry down there and I’m always telling him to put lubricant as it’s hurting me . And sometimes it feels like I am begging for that as he is more comfortable without it , but damn IM NOT OKAY without it . So basically I do not remember when was the last time I have finished during sex . I understand that now with a baby it’s hard to fully enjoy it and have enough time for everything. But still . Just kiss me and put your dick inside me does not seems sexy . To be honest I understand why in marriage women does not want to have sex . Like I feel like it’s already work that I have to do not a pleasure. I’ve been telling him that but as I can see no changes applied 🫠

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I tell my partner to wear a condom not only for protection but also so that there's no mess to clean up when I get up to use the toilet. Is this normal?
I ask because I now have the contraceptive pill but I still want him to wear a condom.

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