Mamas with depression, anxiety, and other mental health disorders

I’m struggling 😭😭😭

I’m with my partner I’m 30 weeks pregnant. We live together,
He works with his ex girlfriend who he admitted he was in love with. Since he has told her he’s having a baby he said she has been trying to get back with him and he hugged her they had a conversation about how it could of been.
I tried my best as a women to do everything to make my relationship happy.
We have gone from sleeping together everyday to now if I don’t insinuate it it doesn’t happen,
4 days and nothing.
I feel like I’m not what he wants I’m not good enough and I have never felt so low and shitty!

Why are women y so spiteful when u had him u didn’t want him now he’s moved on all of a sudden u want him!

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If another girl can turn his head, he was never your man

His and idiot. Why he told you all this? What’s the point? You’re pregnant, woman. Wake up! Have you been long enough with this man before you get pregnant? A child changes a lot, and if your relationship is not strong enough , there is nothing you can do. A relationship needs two.

Hey, if you ever want to talk please message me! Don’t go through this alone, if it’s for a chat or if you want to blow off steam I’m sure a lot of women on here will always be your ear! We’ve all had our fair share of men who do not appreciate us and we need to be there for each other not compete! When I received news my dad had 12 months to live when I was 20 years old I was cheated on, I know how it feels to question if you’re truly what he wants x

I’ve told him he can go back but he says he’s not leaving.
He said he has told her that he’s having a baby and he wants a family.
But I can’t help but feel like I’m not what he wants he’s only staying for my unborn child

He needs to leave that job.

If he really wants to make things work, he needs to get out of there asap. She is a stumbling block for him. It might be safe now. But if he keeps having temptation delivered to him daily on a silver platter. It won’t always be.

This baby deserves better than a father who puts his own needs first and this man needs to be made aware of that.

I’m saying this in caps so it sinks in. HIM TELLING HER HE STILL LOVED HER & THEM TALKING ABOUT WHAT COULD HAVE BEEN. IS A MAJOR BOUNDARY THAT HAS BEEN CROSSED.

I’m really sorry you’re struggling with this. Praying for your heart to be healed and this situation to be resolved. 🤍 You deserve better than this.

I would truthfully say that if he can have sex with you anytime he wants, but he doesn't want it anymore, he's probably getting it elsewhere.
I also kinda asked my husband for a man's point of view on it. He said you're well within reason to ask him to find a different job and that it sounds like infidelity. If you want to talk, scream, or yell out feelings, please feel free to reach out. You don't deserve this treatment, I'm so sorry.

Is there an update on this ? I really hope you’re doing okay 🥺

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