Don't know what to do😔

I am in such a mess right now. I am 37 weeks pregnant and lost my sex drive completely , I have spoken to my partner about this and he was okay at first, but now it's ruining our relationship. He tells me how he's got needs & I have to do it, I sit and cry alone at night because I am physically can't do it, he says things to make me feel guilty so il do it but if I don't want to I'm not going to enjoy it and neither will he. He tells me everyday to lighten up, I think I'm suffering depression too which I have told him about but he's so immature he don't understand, all he's doing is everything to try and make me have sex with him but I just can't bring myself to do it. He don't make me feel good at all just about him and his needs, before long he will probably cheat again because he said sex is important to him. I am suffering in silence even after communicating to him how I'm not myself lately. I genuinely don't feel like doing anything with him, being around him don't make me happy anymore, but I think it's the hormones I'm not sure but I feel so guilty and horrible. I guess I just needed to vent in the hopes I don't get judged for not being able to give my man what he needs 😔

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I’m so sorry😓 but no real man would ever make you feel like that it seems he has a shit Ton of growing up to do 🥴 you’re growing his baby. Which takes up so much energy, some woman don’t have sex at all throughout their pregnancy so he should count himself lucky that he’s had any at all. You deserve to be put first during this time, above his ‘needs’
Sex isn’t a necessity and he needs to give his head a wobble.
Feel free to message if you ever want to chat❤️‍🩹

The fact that he is completely ignoring your mental health and pretty much forcing sex on you is disgusting!
You’re at your most vulnerable physically and emotionally when you’re pregnant, never mind so late on in pregnancy and the fact he is treating you like this is vile!
When I was 37 weeks pregnant I barely even got up out of bed, I had sex with my partner maybe 4/5 times during the entirety of my pregnancy and all he did was support me, run me baths, massages, little gifts etc!
How your man treats you during pregnancy is SOOO important! I really hope this man grows up, supports and nurtures you, especially post partum! ❤️
Please feel free to message me if you need any support, to vent or just cheering up! You’re doing an amazing job and growing a child is a pure miracle, so very proud of you mamma ❤️❤️❤️

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