Safe ways for cat and baby to sleep in same room

We have a next to me cot ready for baby and we got our kitten in March (she’s four months) we’ve been trying to get her used to sleeping in the lounge by herself but it just feels so cruel so I’ve left access to the room to let her sleep where she would prefer and she sleeps in our bed or ventures over to the next to me cot sometimes, she’s very cuddly and loves sleeping on chests so I’m just trying to work out a way where she can sleep in our room safely as well as the baby… is there something you could cover the cot with that safe?? I just don’t know🥲 Any recommendations would be so appreciated🙏🏻🙏🏻

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I think the only way that it would be safe is if your kitten slept in a crate, which would be more unfair on her than being shut out of the bedroom altogether. X

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We’ve got two ten year old cats that we’ve had since 10 weeks and have ALWAYS slept with us on our bed or their beds but in the bedroom.
Baby boy is due august and we’re just going to see how we get on tbh and take it day by day.
If we feel like we can’t trust them then they’ll have to be shut out but having read other posts on here etc some people have said that their cats didn’t bother with the baby as they knew it was a possibility they’d be making a loud noise. X

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it’s such a tough one isnt it! I’ve also heard that’s cats are very maternal so hopefully know not to sleep on baby and that’s baby’s cot etc after a while, fingers crossed xxx

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My cats always still slept with me. If you put foil in the next to me now it will stop her from going in and she’ll get used to not going in there. My little one is 17 months and still in my room, the cats never tried to sleep with her but obviously this will depend on the cat xx

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I have found the more I let them explore baby’s room and bits and bobs the more they’ve just grown bored and gone back to their usual beds 😂

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yes!! My cat thought all the new baby equipment (pram, cot, baby gym, EVERYTHING) was for her but I think she’s come to realise it’s not and has done the same!🤣🤣

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amazing! Thankyou I will definitely try that xx

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I keep seeing these and defo think I will get one just in case as I think I’d be so paranoid in case she snuck in the cot whilst everyone’s asleep, thankyou so much! Xxx

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Personally I don’t think there’s a completely safe way, unless you stay awake to supervise. I’ve found even though my cats don’t want to sleep on/with baby one of them has a habit of not checking where he’s jumping & will quite often jump on my head..I can only imaging the damage if he were to jump into the cot onto baby.

My cats would always sleep with us pre baby. Once baby was born we shut them out of the room, they got over it pretty quickly, we just give them extra cuddles in the evening

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yeah definitely, I’ll see how she gets on and if needs be i recon I’ll do the same with her at night time xx

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Some sort of cot net will be your best bet! Our cats no longer sleep in our room (due to sleeping arrangements changing) but the first couple weeks we had one that went right across the cot with a zip on it and even if the cats tried to walk on it (they didn’t but we tested it before baby arrived) it totally supported their weight and we set it up when I was 25 weeks and made sure to teach the cats they aren’t allowed on it, it worked perfectly! Have a look on Amazon, there are so many great ones on there!

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Also, your cat is gorgeous!

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thanks so much I will look into that xxxxx

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