Does it get easier?

Does it get easier to stand up for your children? I have a hard time with confrontation and I'm still having a hard time 9 months later protecting my boundaries with my son. Will it get easier so do I need to find my voice now so we're not disrespected more in the future?

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Yes definitely find your voice now and keep boundaries in place for behavior and actions that are disrespectful to other and adults

Yes it definitely gets easier. I'm an introvert and extremely quiet and nervous around others but when it comes to my kids I find my voice and mama bear comes out. I know it can be hard but setting boundaries and expectations now will make everything easier in the long run. You got this!

It gets a lot easier. Before I had my baby girl I kept it all bottled up because I hated the confrontation. And little by little I started standing my ground with my LO. I'm a firm No! On certain things. It definitely helps with my hubs sticking up for things. But it gets a lot easier. The more you do it the more confident and comfortable you will feel with it. In the moment it does cause me some anxiety and I do have to let myself cool down afterwards, but my baby will always come first. Even over my own fears and worries

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I'm so not meant to be a mother.

My kids won't listen to me get into stuff when they know they aren't supposed to. Telling me no all the time. Only listen to their dad. Laughs when I correct them. I spend most of my time yelling at them because they don't want to listen to me at all. My husband said that I shouldn't have kids. And I am believing him on it. I was never meant to be a mother now. I won't hurt my kids I just want to disappear and make everyone else's lives better without me.

One and done… or not?

32ftm. I’m starting to feel so much pressure to have another baby soon as I wean from breastfeeding so they can be close in age and be friends, but I don’t feel ready for pregnancy and newborn trenches again 😭 my husband and I are all we’ve got. Having just one baby without a village has been really tough. Am I being unrealistic wanting another one soon?

Baby #2??

I really want baby number 2 and am thinking of doing it via IUI as a solo mama!
Has anyone had any experiences with it 👀

Tests

So I had a blood test at the drs bc I keep getting positive tests when the blood test was negative what could this mean? Hubby says the tests are negative and said he can’t see anything. Negative image down below.

Am I pregnant?

I lightly spotted almost 5 days ago, which is not common for me before my period.
My period was supposed to come today. I should have tested in the morning but its 5:30pm.
Is there a second line??

Anyone have this happen before?

We were not trying to conceive, used protection and had sex on week 2 of my cycle (accidentally on my peak ovulation day). Week 3 we had Flu A. Week 4 my period did not come (it’s very regular). I tested and it was negative (2 different brands).
What should have been week 2 of my next cycle (now 6 weeks post last period), I had light red/ pink spotting for one day when I wiped. The following week, I tested again, still negative, but this time almost all the dye was in the negative space, which I’ve never seen happen before. The area where it shows one horizontal line for negative and a plus sign for positive, the horizontal line was super faded at the 3 minute mark, and the negative vertical line in the next window was VERY dark. Now I’m on week 8 of all this, period did not show up yesterday. Nothing in my life has changed (no additional stress, no other illness, no changes in diet or exercise, etc).

Has anyone gone through this and NOT been pregnant? I’m super nervous as we thought we were done having kids.

PS. I know I should go get a blood test, does anyone know if urgent care will do that? I’m past being convinced by a pee test.