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Controlling baby mama

I am a bonus, Mom of two boys, my fiancé(of three years) has two kids from two previous relationships, and we also have a son together. The oldest Mom is learning how to be understanding of our relationship and with us having a kid together. But the second Mom is a little more on the jealous and controlling side, she tries to control my fiancé and any way she can, and I am a territorial person and I protect what is mine. If he doesn’t comply with her, she gets mad and threatens to take his son away from him. She gave us a puppy two years back because she couldn’t take care of him anymore. We are in the process moving now and we had her watch him for a couple of weeks , and I had a really bad feeling that she wasn’t going to give him back
So I had contacted a friend of the family to see if she can watch him .When we tried to get him back, she didn’t want to give him back she acted like she owned him still and is still trying to control what I do with my puppy. My fiancé doesn’t want any confrontation with her and tries to reason with her, but on the other hand I feel that he needs to tell her that what we do in any circumstance is none of her business unless it has to deal with their child. I need some advice on how to deal with the situation?!I don’t want to fight her I just simply want her to stop trying to control my relationship, I have also had to cancel so many plans / even had fights in my relationship because of her. She also has no respect for my at all.