Baby have average weight

Hi my baby turn 1 yr old next month,,,but he is not gaining too much weight and these days he also rubbing his nose and lips and he also loss of appetite,,he don’t like any solid nd liquid food,,my baby is on breastfeeding nd he don’t like formula milk nd bottles, I m so much worried about him ,,can somebody have any suggestions

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Hi mama! I would make different meals for him and just let him try them. Many times you have to introduce the same food many times to them for them to start liking it. For example I do potatoes and spinach with a bit of seasoning on there and grind it up. My baby boy doesn’t have teeth yet he’s also turning one next month so I pure everything for him. But he lives potato’s or I make him lentils and try different things I make a purée out of them all but that will get him used to texture and taste.

Good luck!!! Feel free to message me if you have any more questions. ☺️

My baby girl is the same. She's petite but her pediatrician said I shouldn't worry. She also said they won't gain as much weight at this stage.
She doesn't take a bottle and only breasts. I try everything with her. Also try cereal. How much does he weigh?

My girl will be 1 next month too. She has 8 teeth, can chew and swallow but prefers to spit it out, throw it or play in it. Her favorite is yogurt and about the only thing she reliably eats besides her formula. Let's hope this is a stage!

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