"Safe name" or more "out there" name??

Mine and my husbands naming style can swing from the most common mainstream names (think top 10) to wildly obscurešŸ™ˆ so do we go for a safe name that we maybe dont love 100% but would allow our child to blend in with society unseen or go with a more obscure name that we love but others may find strange??

Our current "safe" names
Luca Kai
Isaac Matthew
Sebastian Ellis

Our current out there names
Maverick Castiel
Loki Kairos
Leonidas Creed

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Loki is a bit out there and Luca is a bit common but otherwise I’d say these are all sweet spot names where people know and can spell them but there probably won’t be 3 in their class

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Wb Isaac Leonidas

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none of these are based off naming after a fantasy book. My husband is greek hence kairos and leonidas. Im from Norway, hence Loki. Castiel and creed are just names we like.

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Maverick is cute

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I don’t think they are that out there tbh. If your kid ends up wanting to ā€œblendā€ he can pick a nickname like Rick or Leo. And who’s to say he won’t hate having a ā€œsafeā€ name? My name was considered extremely weird where I grew up but I love it.

It’s your baby! Pick the name you love.

I think as long as you’re not naming your child something deliberately provocative like Satan, or making an obtuse effort at spelling (Lowquix instead of Loki, it’s a silent x) you’re fine.

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Unique names are the norm now. (Not sure where you're from), but look at the top 100 names for 2023 in Australia.
Kai #28
Sebastian #32
Leo #3
Leon #62
Leonardo #84
Luca #10
Luka #58
Maverick #119
Isaac#35

I love Castiel as a first name, but out of your three uncommon names I'd choose Loki.

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I personally dont like Leonidas & Creed together, it sounds like a game character. Both names are nice though so it’s definitely not odd if paired differently. Then again, most of the time people don’t share their middle names so it’s not a big deal its not going to be on their resume or anything if you do like them together

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Why not choose a safe name for the first name and more unusual one for the middle name? You can still use the out there name as a nickname but it gives your child a little more flexibility to choose what they go by as they get older.

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I went for the middle ground with my youngest 2
Not common but not wacky

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You can do both. We did Ace, Axel, and Alphonse. We gave them all average or normal middle names to even it out(Ace Ryan/Axel John/ Alphonse Evan)
Axel ended up being pretty popular year he was born though, oh well it sounded good with Ace.

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Combine the two! Go for a unique first name that you love, paired with a ā€˜safe’ traditional middle name. Best of both worlds.

Maverick Kai
Maverick Luca
Loki Sebastian
Leonidas Matthew
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We went with an old fashioned unique first name & a safe middle name. But we didn’t decide until after we’d met him & his original name didn’t fit šŸ˜‚

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Sebastian Creed sounds nice. Or Maverick Ellis.

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