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My boyfriend/bd literally wont work. He had a job as a server with me and we were making okay money but serving made him too anxious and it was hard to get him to even show up so he quit. But I’ve been begging him to get applications for actual months and he just hasn’t. Am I the asshole for being pissed abt it. Like I need the help providing and he does nothing else
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He needs to get a job or you have to just leave him because you have one child not two. Not fair for you to have to work while he just does whatever. It’s also a sign he doesn’t care enough about you and your child’s wellbeing. Hope things get better for you!
Maybe make him babysit and you make that bag so you one day won’t have to depend on him
Have u had him check out temp agencies or the unemployment office. These paths are usually easier and less effort
In the same boat, it’s been 5 years he’s been in and out of jobs. It’s exhausting, you’re not being unreasonable for feeling that way. Fathers think because they’re around their child at home that that’s enough. It’s no excuse
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