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I have my little girl still as an only child at the moment and was born in oct 2021 and looking to try for baby no 2 soon... but the mum gulit is killing me 🙁 does anyone else feel the same or does anyone already have other kids have any tips how to get past this feeling?

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What is it you feel guilty about?

I understand the guilt, I’ve still just got the one but it’s the feeling of not being able to give all your attention to your current child. I’ve always felt guilt for my poor dog as well 🙃

The best thing I did was have another one the bond they have already is amazing I had mum guilt to start with but it soon goes I just include her in everything with helping with the baby x

You will always feel guilt, about sharing your time and attention etc I have 2 16 months apart and it’s the best thing if your blessed to be able to, I’d love more but I couldn’t deal with another just yet 😅

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