Am I the problem?

Throughout my life I have been very sheltered from anything sexual or sex related. My parents never even talked about the birds and the bees I had to be one of the kids who learned from their friends or tv however I have never been able to reach the big O. Thankfully My husband and I have always had a very healthy sex life and relationship but I do not feel like he is happy or fulfilled sometimes. He always assures me he is satisfied and happy and loves me but I know that he really need the assurance of a good job by getting the big O from me.😔 I'm not sure what to do and he cracks jokes to let me know its not a big deal but I feel like I'm letting him down sometimes

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Check out @vanessaandxander on IG!
Vanessa is a sex therapist and her husband, who’s a regular dude, joins in and gives his thoughts and opinions on things. Very non judgmental and they offer some great courses and lots of free information.
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with you and you are not the problem at all.
Most women, myself included, can not orgasm from just vaginal sex. Lots of us need clitoral or other stimulation as well.
Good luck!

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No, you're not the problem and you're not alone. I just started taking Olly Lovin' Libido supplements that are supposed to help with pleasure during sex. Try on your own or maybe sex toys.

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