Unhappy in my relationship

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My daughter is about to be 18 months old. The last 12 months have been rough. My partner and I have both been struggling with mental health. He just got out of psychiatric care he was in the hospital for 5 days he was having suicidal thoughts. I feel like he never talks to me. I try to talk to him he just never does. It was never like this in the past. I don’t want to be in a relationship where I feel unloved. I understand he has his mental health issues and I have my own but I just feel so alone. So unloved. I feel like I’m wasting time being unhappy. I feel like I’m the only one that ever puts any effort in. What do I do?

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Just to add. He started therapy and I have as well but I didn’t tell him I started because I don’t want to take away from his healing

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Maybe give therapy a little bit of time, if he’s just come out of the psychiatric care for suicidal thoughts he sounds like he’s in a pretty dark place 💖 I know how you feel though with feeling lonely and unloved it’s tough especially with a baba in the mix 💖💖 Give him time to heal and see if he improves maybe.. I hope you all end up okay though!

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thank you❤️

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