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Is anyone else’s partner in the navy and how are you coping ? x

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My partners navy, he left a few days ago for deployment until Christmas and I’m struggling💔

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my partner is getting deployed end of august until december and i’m dreading it! have you got any socials? it’s nice to be in contact with people in the same situation xx

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Some good days and some bad. He had a big deployment last year. He is currently away which has now been extended 🙃. We have a toddler and I work quite a stressful job. Some days I feel as if I can't cope with everything and then other days I feel as if I am on top of things...

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I’m on Facebook, Dannii Doubtfire! It’s an awful situation but it’s nice to have people to relate to definitely! Xx

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ive just added you! xx

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i bet!! we got lucky when we found out i was pregnant since i was so late into the pregnancy they let him have time off until the baby came and two weeks after it! he’s back in work now and it’s awful xx

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Navy girlfriend here! Other half currently posted in Scotland, we’re 500 miles away and the other end of the UK in Southampton. (Been posted here for years, only 3 weeks left). He’s been able to come home for long weekends once a month. Good days and bad days! I feel like a single mum a lot of the time, which is very bizarre when you know it’s the complete opposite in reality!

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We also got really lucky when LO was born as he was around for the first 9 months? Working alongside. No idea how it worked out that way. I feel super grateful for that as I know a lot of people don't get that. However, since then it's been quite full on. Our toddler is now 2.
Is your partner away at the moment? I am sorry 😔. You can always message me on here! It's nice to be able to network with others in similar positions. Big hugs 🤗 xx

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Hi Emma. I am not too far away from Southampton. If you ever want to chat, message me 🙂. That sounds so so tough with him being all the way in Scotland. Thank goodness there are only 3 weeks left! We have a few weeks left too (hopefully, unless it gets extended again). I get what you mean, it's bizarre! It's a different world really x

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My partner has just left for a 4 month deployment. Back end of November, 3 weeks before our little one is due! Struggling massively however he will be at home for just over 3 months when he is back so that is keeping me going!
The struggle is real sometimes however I just try and keep myself busy! Helps that we have contact most days. Just enjoy the time together before your partner goes ❤️

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Sex life is 🫠

Im a little desperate already . Im not a huge fan on blowjobs but I’m doing it because I know he likes it . If he wants it in a car, during work meeting , on the balcony, on the beach everywhere I’m okay to do that . However, I’m not getting anything in return. I mean the last time he went down was more than 1.5 years ago . Okay, I was pregnant maybe he did not feel like doing it while I had a belly as he told me . , but I’m not pregnant already for awhile and I’m always telling him that I want him to go down and he is always having an excuse like “tomorrow “ etc . At the beginning it was funny and I was like okayyy but now it’s not as I’m not enjoying our sex in general . Like the process itself does not make me finish . As I’m breastfeeding and super dry down there and I’m always telling him to put lubricant as it’s hurting me . And sometimes it feels like I am begging for that as he is more comfortable without it , but damn IM NOT OKAY without it . So basically I do not remember when was the last time I have finished during sex . I understand that now with a baby it’s hard to fully enjoy it and have enough time for everything. But still . Just kiss me and put your dick inside me does not seems sexy . To be honest I understand why in marriage women does not want to have sex . Like I feel like it’s already work that I have to do not a pleasure. I’ve been telling him that but as I can see no changes applied 🫠

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Whyyy?

I get horny when my man isn’t around but when he’s around and in the mood I’m not. This last Thursday he made me squirt a lot for by birthday. We only get intimate like 2 times a month.

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Friend 🥺

Let’s skip to the good part and just be besties? Text, call, ft.. play dates or just simply hang out. Just want a genuine mommy friend. I’m in NW Indiana but we can be long distance besties tooooo.

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I tell my partner to wear a condom not only for protection but also so that there's no mess to clean up when I get up to use the toilet. Is this normal?
I ask because I now have the contraceptive pill but I still want him to wear a condom.

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Friends!?😊

Hii there! Just a mom looking for some friends to talk to through out the days. I’m from Ohio but don’t mind long distance friends. Feel free to message me!

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