Partner annoyed with baby crying

Hi ladies, so I'm feeling a bit fed up and overwhelmed. Since my baby has been born, I've mostly been the one to get up in the night, and I'm the one up with her every morning. He's only ever changed her nappy 4/5 times when I've had to go out, and he's had no choice. I'm the one who's always prepared her bottles, done her meals, bathed and dressed her. She's now 10 and a half months. This morning, he's still in bed at 11.20am. because he's stays up until early hours, and she's been screaming and fighting her nap, possibly because of the heat. He's angry and telling me to get her our cos she's keeping him awake. Am I wrong for being annoyed? I never thought things would be this way when we had a baby 😢

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Look up weaponised incompetence. Basically some partners, they are incompetent on purpose so they don't have to do stuff, knowing their partner will pick up the slack for them. You need to set boundaries or you'll be like this for the next 18 years.

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I agree with the person above. He sounds selfish. You should definitely have a conversation with him if you haven’t already to make sure expectations are set.

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