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Hey everyonešŸ«¶šŸ¼ hope everyone’s pregnancy journey is going well! I just gave birth to my beautiful daughter last Friday! 07/19/24. She is my first baby. I have a question tho! I have almost no appetite and find myself FORGETTING to eat all day! Anyone have any advice? And any foods I should be eating to help milk production? Thank you!

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First off, congratulations 🄰 how was your birthing experience? This will be my first as well so I'm curious, I'm not sure about the appetite question so my apologies for that

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I just took a breastfeeding class last night and they say that oatmeal helps with milk supply.

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It's to soon to rub it in my face! 😫 I want mine to come out already! But congrats she's a doll!

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2nd time mom here, 1.Congratulations (wish it was me 😭) 2.Oatmeal Cookies helped keep my supply up, breastfeeding burns a lot of calories so eating a lot of protein will help you keep up production but keep the weight off. I gained almost no weight my first pregnancy but gained 50+ lbs from breastfeeding and eating unhealthy

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Congratulations mama!! I’m a first time mama questions How did u get urself into labor I’m 39 weeks an want her out lol & how did u prepare for ur postpartum

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If you search galactagogues, you'll get a whole list of foods and herbs that help with milk production! It's a weird word, but it's the name of the category of food items that increase production. The one that worked the best for me for my 1st kiddo was fennel seed. I would boil water, add fennel seeds, simmer for 10 min, then strain the seeds out and drink the water. I'd drink about 2 glasses a day and I produced insane amounts of milk for the 15 months that I nursed my son.

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Fennel tea, oatmeal,coconut water. You have to definitely eat a lot more then usual you will be hungry

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What has worked in the past for me is body amor, water- hydration is key!

Oatmeal, healthy fats! Balanced diet for sure!

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Congrats!! You need protein, healthy fats, carbs, and more fluids than you think so I’d just heat up some chicken noodle soup to put in a coffee thermos to eat/drink whenever you get a chance.

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