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Hello! I just joined this app today 😊. I’m married, in my mid 30s, and 8w3d with our first! I’m the first one of my girl group to get pregnant (most of them never plan on having kids), so even though I love them dearly, I can’t really chat with them about the things I want to chat about currently. They’re still my friends, but can’t relate to what I’m experiencing. Has anyone else felt that pregnancy has isolated them from an existing friend group?

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Yes! I was the 1st of my sisters, the 1st in my friend group AND the 1st on my husband's side AND the 1st of his friend group to have a baby. (And i was almost 31 and the youngest on my side and his).. Was sad and really showed me who was a true friend and not. It's not really the pregnancy that brings out their true colors, cause that's just the start-- it was more after she was born

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