Overdramtic or not!

Sorry about the late/long post!
I’ve just been lying in bed with my back to my partner and we were both watching TikTok (our normal night routine) his phone has gone silent so I’ve turned around to check if he was still awake or not and he’s on his phone scrolling through (looked like pictures) and he’s lying next to me having a w*nk! I’ve got up and come into my children’s bedroom and now sleeping on their bedroom for as I feel so disrespected! He knew I was awake because he asked me if I was ok but still carried on!
I don’t really know what I’m looking for from this post but I just don’t know what to do! I know if I question him he will say he’s h*rny because we don’t have sex but he doesn’t help around the house or with the kids so I’m never in the mood and he just doesn’t understand!
Can anyone help out with this situation 😩 I’m stuck with what to tdo!

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What were the pictures of? That’s a bit weird 😳

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I’m don’t know, he had his phone facing away from me

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I’m not bothered about him doing it it’s more the fact I was lying right there! He does nothing around the house or not much help with the kids because he works an “actual” job and I just “sit around all day” at home, our kids are 1 and 2 so still very needy

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No I think that’s direspectful he was just doing it in the bed whilst you lay there, he could have done it any other time of day or gone to the bathroom x

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😲 not overdramatic!!!!!

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