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Birthday Weddings

I would love a fall wedding, but my birthday is in October.
Did any of you get married close to your birthday or on your birthday? Do you regret it, or has it worked out for you?
If I did put distance between my birthday and our wedding, but still aimed for a fall theme, what do you think would be a good time gap between the two?

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You could do a September wedding and birthday be in October. What date is it. I would think like 3 plus weeks away is good. But the thing about them being together could be nice just so yall can go on like combine trips for anniversary and birthday

that’s what I was thinking if I combined them … then I started to wonder if I’d ever regret not separating the two 🤔

But my bday is Oct 13

November totally crossed my mind

My birthday is in February. My husband birthday is in March. We got married in March on our anniversary date. I think our wedding date and my husband birthday is fairly far apart.

I got married September 9th and my husbands birthday is September 3rd

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