Back to back sleep regression

we’ve been through the 6 month regression and got one night of “decent sleep” where baby woke two hourly. Then she’s gone back to hourly wakes, but now refusing to go into her next to me, literally screaming.
I can’t co sleep with her, she won’t even lay on the bed beside me, she wants to be held, or on my chest. Even asleep sat up with her head on me as I write this. I just can’t cope anymore! Does anyone have any ideas why she is doing this? Or what on earth I can do to help us both. I know she’s exhausted but this isn’t working

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I have no advice but I can offer support! My little one is the same, will do a couple hours at the start of the night in his cot but then beyond that will only sleep on me… it’s utterly exhausting, I’m trying to take solace in the fact that everything is a phase and it will get better ❤️ you’re not alone!

oh thank god it’s not just us. Honestly those first couple of hours even if it’s 7pm I’ve been going to sleep myself just to try get some rest 😭 is your little one breast fed? X

This is peak separation anxiety time! We are just over two awful weeks and slowly getting back 🤞🏼🤞🏼 When mine does this I turn to the side and lie her on the bed so we are still stomach to stomach and my arm under her head, but I can put my head on the pillow and get some sleep, then I can remove my arm and she thinks she is still lying on me, like the position you would see if someone was BF lying down, if that makes sense lol helps so so much!!

aw we have been going through terrible nights for around 4 weeks now and it’s just seeming to get worse 😭 before last night she would just whinge and want comforting now it’s full blown waking up crying / screaming 🤪 x

He’s bottle fed but is a stage 5 clinger! 😂

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Hour night wakes and 5am get up

Can anyone shed some light as to why on earth my child doesn’t want to sleep??? My eyeballs are bleeding!!

Never been a good sleeper, but the problems always changing. He’s nearly 9 months old.

Beginning of the month he dropped to 2 naps. We could put him to bed at 7pm and he’d get up for the day at 6am, with multiple wake ups every 2/3 hours.

Now we put him down at 7pm, he can do a good 4/5 hour stretch, but come 1/2am he’s up every hour then getting up for the day at 5am. This then completely messes up the day because I can’t keep him awake long enough to even get to 7pm, let alone later.

He has 2 naps, roughly about 1hr10 each but it changed based on when he wakes and trying to get him to a reasonable bed time.

What could be the reason for this? 6am is fine, but 5am is not 😩😩

AITA

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I think its fair

Me and my partner agreed to sleep in 1 day of the weekend.
He doesn't find it fair to look after both kids (my 4 year old isnt his) while i sleep so he looks after the baby while i sleep and my toddlers at his dads and ill look after both the next day.
Straightaway it was pretty unfair as i let him sleep in until he wakes up 10-12
He wakes me up when baby starts fussing because he wants milk (doesnt need it)
I cant pump as i dont supply enough.
So i get woken at 9/9:30 to feed baby then i get him sleep then theres no point sleeping in as my toddlers being dropped off.
I also find it unfair that i get both kids to sleep most night, i get my toddler to sleep everyday hes home (4/5days) and i get my baby to sleep most nights with the exception of maybe twice a month as his dad struggless then about 95% of his thru the day naps.
I have also been unwell for a few months (tumor scare) and am waiting 18 weeks to see a specialist so im obviously petrified for that, so unbelievably tired and alot of aches and pains, specifically these pounding headaches ive been having.
After i had been up til 11:30 getting both kids to sleep lastnight and my partner falling asleep at 10 then him ignoring the baby cries all morning until my toddler woke up im fed up slammed to door and rold him not to expect to sleep in unless he gets the baby to sleep the night b4.
I keep having issues with him not feeling the wet from baby being sick or weeing himself or being able to smell it do about 98% of the time hes given to me i have to clean him up n change him.
Including at night, we agreed my partner would change nappies (1 a night at 5am) while i feed (2,4,5,6:30) but every night when i get him hes pissed through and my partner gets annoyed when i wake him up n moan about it.
Then the morning after hes annoyed at how much washing there is (thats his job) and moans about how often i change myself (baby constantly shits thru and sicks on me) and baby
Honestly im just so tired all the time

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