What would you do if you found an open condom wrapper in the dryer?? You confront your spouse about it and he says that it probably came out of his old work pants. Mind you, y’all haven’t used protection in over a year. Any thoughts or has anybody experienced something similar??
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Suss as…. Just saying. Anything else making you question his loyalty?

i’d probably freak out a little and be superrr sus
He is always accusing me of doing stuff and has been secretive with his phone lately. He keeps his phone on silent.

Oh…. 100% he’s up to something. Sorry 😞 I’d be looking through that phone.

🚩 sorry girl 😔

Um, I wouldn't believe him..that is suspicious and I'd ask to look at the phone or..sneak it if you don't trust him to.hand it over..find the answers

I mean, even if it came out of his old work pants why was it in there. Also men use their pockets all the time as if he didn’t notice it for years. Sorry babe.

Yeah, no...that's suspicious 🚩

Uhh that’s not good girl…

I don't know I might confront the washing machine first sounds pretty serious it sounds like your appliances are messing around

Fishy af, I’d be going on his phone🤣

if you guys don’t use condoms then yes, very very sus 🤔
confront him about it, open up that conversation and ask him everything! don’t let him lie or get out of talking about it!

They’re all cheating.. the evidence hit you smack dab in the fucking face. Dont let him gaslight you

LITERALLY ALL OF THIS ADVICE SUCKS! He’s fucking CHEATING ON YOU IN YOUR MOST VULNERABLE STATE! Get your shit together and ACT
Thanks for the input.

This makes this situation a MAJOR red flag, he’s trying to deflect his wrong doings on you. I’d be extremely concerned

Why would an empty condom wrapper be in his work clothes anyway, that’s suss in itself even being single😅 he’s completely fucked up and don’t let him get away with it without finding out what’s gone on or it’ll happen again
Yeah he started getting mad and pretty much not believing that I even found it in the dryer. Why would something like that be in work pants?? I guess trying to gaslight and say if he was cheating why would he leave evidence.

Sounds so fishy! He needs to grow some balls and tell the truth. Give him the ultimatum. Definitely gaslighting you.. “why would I leave it there?” Don’t think you left it there on purpose pal🤯😂

Hope you’re doing ok!!
I am, just figuring out an exit plan.

Sorry to say I agree with others I think he keeps accusing you because he is the one who's up to something

yep !!!!!i don't ask no questions i just move from there...might be toxic of me but font give them a chance to lie

Ive been there too and gave way too many chances.. dumbest stuff I ever did.

like theres no explaining that!!! its wrong and in your work pants