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Any other mama’s have trouble getting insurance, me and my son just moved back to Florida in September, and have been trying to get everything settled here, we’ve gotten my son health insurance and a doctors appointment for Tuesday, I don’t currently work so we’re on wic and food stamps until I can get a job at least but it seems like they won’t approve me for anything, the food stamps were in his room, I haven’t gotten one piece of mail in my name

I applied for Medicaid for both of us and he got a letter with his card saying he approved for it but I haven’t gotten anything for myself, so I tried to get insurance through marketplace and they denied me and then said I should be eligible for Medicaid which I’m finding so annoying because everything is starting to feel harder here

It doesn’t help that I’ve been feeling very under the weather recently, I’ve felt exactly how I did when I was pregnant with my son except I know I’m not because I’m on birth control and I took a pregnancy test back on august 27th

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They won't give you Medicaid bc you won't take the father of the child for child support. It says it in the letter they said the same thing to me. For the Marketplace you have to tell them you got denied by Medicaid if they ask but tell them you make $14,000 a year. That's the only way you'll be eligible and be careful when viewing plans. Then call them after a month and tell them you lost your job and they'll reduced that monthly payment.

that’s crazy that’s how it works with Medicaid, honestly because me and his father are together we’re just long distance rn, and he uses my bank account so all our money is together, and almost 1000 dollars he gave me to get the baby diapers, and clothes, and wipes and anything else our son needs. Excuse me, if I don’t know much about health insurance, I just turned 23 and this is the first time I’ve ever had time figure this out by myself, I’m just hoping I can figure this out soon because everyday I’m feeling worse but thank you so much for telling me this, I had no idea 😭

I know I am originally from NY so I had to learn all this craziness. They won't give me Medicaid and I. Have No income bc I need to take their father to family court & I get $60 in food stamps for 2 teenagers bc I need to take him to family court

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If your partner got a prostitute pregnant and then abandoned the child/ran away, what would be your response? Read…

So you were not in a relationship at the time or were about to be in a relationship, he gets the prostitute pregnant.
It’s her fault for not taking their morning after pill.
He tells her straight up that he’s not going to be involved and that she should terminate it.
She says that she won’t terminate and she hopes that he does stick around

So she deliberately gets pregnant, basically traps him

What would be your reaction?
he’s response is:
“She trapped me and it’s her fault for not taking the pill”

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Is it normal to crave my partners 🍆 in me but not sexually

My village is missing

This is a late night vent session obviously but l make it short. My boyfriend and I went to a basketball game in Orlando. His sister was babysitting our son. We come back tonight for her to say he slept for 6 hours and just woke up. Now what type of shit is that. I’ve been feeling lately like no one cares for me or helps out in the way I need them to. People want to see you smile but don’t try to find the cause when you’re not. I’m an only child and my mom lives far. I feel very alone even with the dad involved. I feel alone and like I’m doing it all. I can’t even imagine having another kid which I want but this life here is tough

Sex life is 🫠

Im a little desperate already . Im not a huge fan on blowjobs but I’m doing it because I know he likes it . If he wants it in a car, during work meeting , on the balcony, on the beach everywhere I’m okay to do that . However, I’m not getting anything in return. I mean the last time he went down was more than 1.5 years ago . Okay, I was pregnant maybe he did not feel like doing it while I had a belly as he told me . , but I’m not pregnant already for awhile and I’m always telling him that I want him to go down and he is always having an excuse like “tomorrow “ etc . At the beginning it was funny and I was like okayyy but now it’s not as I’m not enjoying our sex in general . Like the process itself does not make me finish . As I’m breastfeeding and super dry down there and I’m always telling him to put lubricant as it’s hurting me . And sometimes it feels like I am begging for that as he is more comfortable without it , but damn IM NOT OKAY without it . So basically I do not remember when was the last time I have finished during sex . I understand that now with a baby it’s hard to fully enjoy it and have enough time for everything. But still . Just kiss me and put your dick inside me does not seems sexy . To be honest I understand why in marriage women does not want to have sex . Like I feel like it’s already work that I have to do not a pleasure. I’ve been telling him that but as I can see no changes applied 🫠

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Let’s skip to the good part and just be besties? Text, call, ft.. play dates or just simply hang out. Just want a genuine mommy friend. I’m in NW Indiana but we can be long distance besties tooooo.

Proud mom💕

First day in public wearing underwear & no accidents! We had a play date at my friend house even though I took her about every 1 or 2 hours its the fact she stayed dry, & poop as well💗