British passport identity confirmation help

Hi, I know this is a long shot but does anyone have a profession listed on the gov website for passports identity verification? I am trying to get my son’s passport and just need the identity confirmation, everyone I know wasn’t eligible due to their profession and was wondering if any of you could help me out. I know that it has to be someone that knows me for at least 2 years but is there someone willing to make an exception if you meet the criteria? Thank you!

Read more on Peanut

The views expressed in community are solely the opinions of participants, and do not reflect those of Peanut.

Learn more about our guidelines.
Add a comment
Avatar

Isn’t there someone you see on regular that can? It’s an online link. Pharmacist or an optician?

Avatar

nope, I literally have no one🥲

Avatar

My best mate is a midwife I just asked her to fill n it went through

Avatar

Asking strangers on the internet is literal fraud 😅
Anyone that agrees to it for you is an idiot.

Avatar

agreed would not risk my professional registration for it. Your gp should be able to do it you may have to pay a small fee

Avatar

I understand your point of view but if I wasn’t desperate I wouldn’t ask strangers x I have no one that can help me and I didn’t know until after I applied that the person needs to be working in a recognised profession. They said until my application is complete and approved I won’t get my documents back, so if you can’t help me please don’t scare away people that are willing to. Thanks

Avatar

ridiculous isn’t it!
Also, gp’s cannot do it, I found that out this week!

Avatar

you don’t have a dentist or a nurse at your registered practises?

Avatar

really ? Mine done ours last week but we’re NI so maybe it’s up to practices etc and he’s also our neighbour so knows us well !!

Avatar

they said they can’t do it.

Avatar

I don’t know if they can’t actually do it or if they are just not willing to do it for me.

Avatar

The professional needs to know you personally it says. The list is extensive if you run in those circles but not fair if you don’t. I’d call up the office and tell them you personally don’t know anyone inThose professions and what can you do. Like others have said, we professionals won’t risk our jobs for someone online

Avatar

dentists are on the approved list of recognised occupations accepted by the gov to sign

Avatar

oh yea it’ll be cos he’s your neighbour, if they know you in a personal setting as well and their profession is gp it’s fine. Just can’t ask your gp randomly if you don’t know them otherwise

Avatar

do you not have a job? Does your husband not have a job? Where there is a director or the company, manager, business owner?

Avatar

yes just read that! Understandable to be fair! Can be tedious trying to get it done !!

Avatar

it doesn’t impact your job, I understand your point but I am sure it doesn’t impact your job otherwise they would ask for someone if it had something to do with the job

Avatar

it would impact your job if you were found out to have lied about knowing the person you signed for. It’s a legal document you can’t forge it!

Avatar

Is there anyone that’s willing to help me? I have asked my manager and my husbands manager but they didn’t get approved either as they are working there but not owning the company.

Avatar

I have just sent off for my sons passport and I am in the same predicament as you however when I called the advice line I was told that I could just ask a neighbour and if they don’t work in the professions listed I can just submit a form alongside it explaining you have literally nobody else you can ask and this was the only person. I don’t have the link available now but if you go onto the website you can find their advice line number and they can send you the link to put in with the application, I was actually told to use this if I couldn’t find anyone at all but I was told I can just use a neighbour that has known me for the amount of time. Not sure if it will be approved or denied yet as I didn’t send any additional information but we will see

Avatar

please let me know your outcome x maybe if that works I will try to do it as well

Avatar

this is true, I used to work for HMPO. Just like its linked department of the Home Office, “sponsors” are on file. If you are just signing documents for random peoples applications and there’s no pattern it flags. Like how do I random know someone in another city or from another country etc. I’ve signed a few passport and visa applications for colleague’s children for example but they are relevant as I can prove I work with their parents.

It is a legal identity document and it’s a criminal offence to commit fraud.

Just call HMPO up and have a word, there’s ways around it but don’t get caught up in their system as suspicious.

Avatar

When I done my baby’s no one asked the profession of the person confirming the identity

Avatar

There’s gotta be a neighbour, an old teacher or someone that can confirm they know you. Even just ring your drs. It’s fraud if not and you could literally end up in some serious trouble and you’ve broadcasted it on the internet 🫣

Avatar

Hi would an eye doctor (not sure how they are called) be approved?

Avatar

Yes, an optician is on the list 👁️

Avatar

Or would my friend who is now a teacher be approved or does it have to be an old teacher of mine, my husbands manager wasn’t eligible either …

Avatar

If your friend is a teacher now that’s fine. It doesn’t have to have been your teacher, just someone in a qualifying profession that happens to know you.

Avatar

I am just looking for advice if people aren’t willing to help me with this, I understand it’s something wrong but I’m not forcing anyone into it, if you know other options please let me know. I spoke to them yesterday and they said it has to be someone with a profession and the people with a profession that I know got rejected so that’s why I tried this app maybe there is someone out there that understands the situation. Thank you and sorry if this bothered you.

Avatar

respectfully you are going around in circles here you’re admitting it’s wrong but still doing it anyway and expecting that someone will risk their career to help you. It is literal fraud. You are genuinely asking for someone to commit a criminal offence for you….if your friend is a teacher she will be able to sign it for you which will be perfectly acceptable. Alternatively ring the customer service department for assistance on what to do.

Avatar

I didn’t know I can call them I just spoke to them on the chat service. Now I know I can call so I will give that a try if hadn’t I used this app for help I wouldn’t have known that.

Avatar

totally understand I know these things can be tedious and stressful. But I’m glad you’ve found some assistance without committing fraud!!xx

Avatar

Your teacher friend should be able to do it for you.

Avatar

it most certainly puts us at risk of fraud. In my professional we are very tightly governed

Avatar

My friend helped me so thanks to those that gave me advice and sorry to those that felt bothered

Read more on Peanut

Trending

in our community

If yall still giving your kids processed food, pls seek help

I understand not everybody can afford healthy ingredients all the time, but I’m seeing so many moms on social media giving they kids artificial cereals, coffee, frozen pancakes, velveetta Mac and cheese, hot Cheetos, kraft, the list goes on. I’m sorry but are yall not capable of cooking from scratch or ?? On top of that, if you still using canola and vegetable oil in 2026 you gotta stop. Am I the only one that notices this ???

Avatar

3

24

AITA?

This isn't a major issue, just wondering if I'm being a bit of an asshole.

• I do shift work, 5 out of 7 days, full-time.
• My partner works from home (mostly, sometimes he goes into the office) M-F, full-time.

Anyway, whenever I have a day off during the week he gets in his feelings when I make myself food (breakfast and lunch) but not him. His reason is he's working, I'm not - Which is fair but I've asked him how many times on a weekend has he gotten up, on his day off and made me breakfast and a lunch to take with me to work? You guessed it, 0.

So basically, just because I'm at home I don't think the responsibility to feed him should automatically fall on me when he manages to feed himself just fine while I'm at work.

Avatar

18

I've finally done it

I have finally done it. I have finally become the trope, the stereotype.

I have become bitter, resentful, and very overwhelmed and overloaded. I am very unhappy and hit burnout. And I snapped at my husband last night. I work full-time, and work has been very busy so im working late a lot. Im also in grad school. I also have a toddler that has become VERY clingy with me. My husband works shorter days but commutes, so he usually gets home after me by an hour or more. When he gets home, he usually heads to the restroom for at least 30 mins when he gets home. And now my toddler doesnt want anything to do with him. So im doing all the toddler duties until bed. I dont get 5 mins to myself. Not for almost 2 years. I finally hit my wall. I have also, somehow, become my MILs medical ride service and she somehow has an appt every week, it seems?! Shes not sick!! My husband was complaining that he needs to change routine to fit in a workout sometimes, and I lost it. I have been BEGGING for 5 mins to myself for months. I have been telling him how im not good, im going to burn out for months. And between his attitude and him complaining (which really got me b/c he blames me for not being able to work out?! Saying I need help when he gets home so he just cant workout now) I just lost it completely. I told him how unfair my life has become and I have the entire mental and emotional load and it is just not fair. He got mad at me and said "hes trying" when hes literally not trying at all. What do I do?? No one is taking the load from me! And im done and dont know what to do now.
I do not like this version of me.

Avatar

2

12

Big vent!

Hi mums.
I'm a first time mum in my 40s to twin boys.They are almost 5 months old and the biggest miracle in my life!
I am struggling!!!
I'm pretty sure I have ppa as my pregnancy was a very high risk and all I remember was crying from anxiety of all the ifs!Thankfully even born at 35 weeks and skinny,didn't need iu time.
My husband is not helping much because he's always too busy with work.He will "look" after them usually between 8pm-12am so I can have a chance to sleep.
He expects me to just sleep when I touch the pillow,even though I hear tje babies crying and him don't really bother because most of the times he'll be on his laptop working.
When I tell him I can't relax to fall asleep because I feel you r neglecting the babies,he says I'm the problem becauae I'm always there with them and don't give them alone time!!
I am angry!!I am furious!!
I can't keep.up.with housework becauae someone alwaya neess me and most of the times they nap I either cook and clean tje kitchen,do laundry or try and take a quick nap.
He doesn't help.around the house,becauae..guess what?always super busy.
I asked him nicely we could clean the house together every Saturday morning so it's easier and quicker for both of us and he said no,because he has a lot of work but probably wants to sleep until 12 or 2.
2 days ago a button of his coat ripped and I told him I'll sew it these days.
Earlier this morning while running late for his work,as always,he weara the coat and told him didn't get the chance to fix the button and sarcastically said..of.course u didn't!!!
I spent all night awake because one of the babies had congested nose and we've been trying to reduce one fees at night.
I wanted to punch him!!He left and I started crying...I cry so much,even at 5 months pp...
I can't go on like this anymoreeeee...
The crying in my ears is constant..my head is always numb..I've gained so much weight and can't find the strength to get back on track..
Even if I try to.find a therapist to just talk,is it gonna help?I really don't know😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Avatar

6

Avoidant husband

I love my husband and he is a good man. We have some issues in our relationship however, as he has an avoidant attachment style (finds romance/intimacy/being emotional difficult). This comes from him having to be independent from a young age and having quite an abusive mother.
The issues in our relationship are mainly around a lack of sex and intimacy. I think the problem is that to feel turned on, I need to feel connected and wanted. My husband (being avoidant) will usually make jokes about being horny whereas I would want to have someone make me feel beautiful/sexy to get in the mood.
It sounds terrible but I've sometimes had dreams about exes that would make me feel this way, and the romance we had (eye contact, intensity, deep words). It makes me feel really guilty but I feel like i'm starved of that. My husband would like a lot more sex but I can't always force myself if I'm not feeling it.
We've spoken a bit about therapy but I know its often really expensive so we probably wouldn't be able to afford it. Do you have any suggestions please? I know that neither of us are wrong in what we want, just different but I'm scared about whether we can fix it or if we're doomed?

Avatar

10

Toddler snacks in the morning ?

Hey.

My 14m is clearly going through a growth spurt. He’s a fussy eater but recently started having two breakfasts with the childminder and that’s even after milk in the morning.

He wakes at 6am and we leave around 7:05am. Has 6oz when he wakes but then is seemly hungry looking for snacks before we leave. The only issue is, he’s a fussy eater and won’t sit and eat fruit etc so struggling to think what I can give him that’s suitable.

Any fussy eater suitable ideas of what I can make or get him to snack on whilst we finish getting ready to get out the door?

Avatar

5

Read more on Peanut