Sleep regression

My baby boy just turned 4months and we’ve been hit with the sleep regression. Prior to it, he’ll only wake up for his pacifier and one feeding throughout the night. (His wake ups would just require the pacifier back into his mouth and he’ll continue sleeping). But now with the sleep regression along with his wake up for his pacifier, I’m feeling very defeated. He’s wide awake several times a night and I’d have to rock him for 30mins before he can settle back into his crib.

Anyone have any advice on this situation?

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We’re going through the same issue currently, my baby boy is also 4 months. They say there’s no such solution to help with their sleep regression, you just have to make through. Stick to your normal night routine and make sure while you feed and rock him at night - to not turn on any lights.

Mine wakes up super happy and energetic at 2-3 am and I just look at her like I just want you to go back to sleep you precious angel who’s way to happy in the middle of the night 😭

oh mine does too! He has a bright smile when he sees me. But the sleep deprivation is challenging my mental state😢

I just change her diaper and feed her and she goes back to sleep nice and cozy in her swaddle, if that doesn’t work I just let her arms loose and let her play until she falls asleep on her own

i tried letting him self soothe himself to sleep, but he’ll just groan while rolling on his side for 20minutes until cries out loud to be held

exactly know the feeling! My boy only naps being held. I can get him to nap in his crib maybe once a day but it’ll only be 20-30min max.

I got the little Einstein aquarium for her crib, it keeps her busy with the toys moving and sound. It also comes with a remote so you don’t have to get up to turn it on. If they can’t see you they won’t cry for you?? Idk just a thought. She’s also fussy when it’s cold so I sometimes just bring her into the bed with us and she goes back to sleep because she’s warm again

Same here—but, in a FB group I’m in, I just learned some babies who fight their sleep right now, like a hand or a burp cloth *always supervised* over their eyes until they fall asleep and then you take it off once they’re down. I’m gonna try it tomorrow! Wishing everyone luck with this milestone.

oh thanks for the advice! Good luck to you !

I’m currently going through this with my little one, she is up 3-4 times a night with rocking to sleep, I will wake up for her feed and then place her back down and I feel like I just crawl back into bed and she’s up again. Unfortunately mama there is nothing we can do but fight through it ❤️

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Hour night wakes and 5am get up

Can anyone shed some light as to why on earth my child doesn’t want to sleep??? My eyeballs are bleeding!!

Never been a good sleeper, but the problems always changing. He’s nearly 9 months old.

Beginning of the month he dropped to 2 naps. We could put him to bed at 7pm and he’d get up for the day at 6am, with multiple wake ups every 2/3 hours.

Now we put him down at 7pm, he can do a good 4/5 hour stretch, but come 1/2am he’s up every hour then getting up for the day at 5am. This then completely messes up the day because I can’t keep him awake long enough to even get to 7pm, let alone later.

He has 2 naps, roughly about 1hr10 each but it changed based on when he wakes and trying to get him to a reasonable bed time.

What could be the reason for this? 6am is fine, but 5am is not 😩😩

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I think its fair

Me and my partner agreed to sleep in 1 day of the weekend.
He doesn't find it fair to look after both kids (my 4 year old isnt his) while i sleep so he looks after the baby while i sleep and my toddlers at his dads and ill look after both the next day.
Straightaway it was pretty unfair as i let him sleep in until he wakes up 10-12
He wakes me up when baby starts fussing because he wants milk (doesnt need it)
I cant pump as i dont supply enough.
So i get woken at 9/9:30 to feed baby then i get him sleep then theres no point sleeping in as my toddlers being dropped off.
I also find it unfair that i get both kids to sleep most night, i get my toddler to sleep everyday hes home (4/5days) and i get my baby to sleep most nights with the exception of maybe twice a month as his dad struggless then about 95% of his thru the day naps.
I have also been unwell for a few months (tumor scare) and am waiting 18 weeks to see a specialist so im obviously petrified for that, so unbelievably tired and alot of aches and pains, specifically these pounding headaches ive been having.
After i had been up til 11:30 getting both kids to sleep lastnight and my partner falling asleep at 10 then him ignoring the baby cries all morning until my toddler woke up im fed up slammed to door and rold him not to expect to sleep in unless he gets the baby to sleep the night b4.
I keep having issues with him not feeling the wet from baby being sick or weeing himself or being able to smell it do about 98% of the time hes given to me i have to clean him up n change him.
Including at night, we agreed my partner would change nappies (1 a night at 5am) while i feed (2,4,5,6:30) but every night when i get him hes pissed through and my partner gets annoyed when i wake him up n moan about it.
Then the morning after hes annoyed at how much washing there is (thats his job) and moans about how often i change myself (baby constantly shits thru and sicks on me) and baby
Honestly im just so tired all the time

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Help meeee

!!All advice welcome!! My 5 month old (nearly 6mo) is just not sleeping . Not for naps and not at night . She can’t connect her cycles . We started sleep regression at 3 months but in like how is this nearly been going on for a further 3 months . Like surely not . She has 10 min naps in crib ( which take so much effort ) and maybe 20/30 min naps in my arms/pushchair . She wakes minimum every hour at night with guaranteed false start 20 mins in . I combo feed. I breastfeed her until almost asleep then place her in the next to me crib give her the pacifier and put my hand on her cheek/face for 20 seconds and she drifts off . It’s not really getting her to sleep that’s the issue it’s she just won’t stay asleep . She doesn’t even need to feed much at night usually 1-2 breastfeeds . The rest is comfort wakes needing her pacifier or my hand on her cheek . I’ve looked into sleep associations and independent sleep and I broke the feed to sleep association and rocking and do bedside comforting instead for most wakes which has now lead to my hand being a sleep association on her face . I’m just so exhausted my husband is working mon-fri 9-9 and it’s just me . I haven’t had more than 4 hours in a row since her birth . I can’t get anything done during the day . She is so clingy and cries if I leave room /put her down etc. I love her so much but we both need rest . If anyone has any tips or a routine that could help PLEASE tell me I’ll try anything 🥲❤️❤️

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