Moving to just outside Hitchin soon!

I’ve got a nearly 3 month old wonderful little boy 🩵 and moving to just outside Hitchin soon and wondered if anyone had any tips or advice on mummy groups/things to do with babies?

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Hitchin is such a lovely place for little ones. Welcome, I'm sure you will love being in the area.

My daughter is 16 months. We have explored all the cafes etc.

Mama baby play on Sun Street is good entertainment.
Little Rascals soft play in town is cheap, but a bit dirty.
Space to play on the industrial estate is good.
Next Page Books, at the bottom of windmill hill do story time on a wednesday morning free, stopped until the new year with Christmas activities but definitely something to look out for.
The family centre do a play morning on a Wednesday that's free.
Xchange fitness do wednesday and Thursday mums, tums and babies exercise class where bubba comes with you.
Fabio's do soft play twice a week too.

Little Lattes is in Letchworth so not too far and is also good with soft play plus play kitchen etc for the slightly older ones!

Anything you want to ask, feel free to message x

I live in letchworth lots to do here too. I have an almost 1 year old if you ever want to meet up for coffee or play date etc message me x

We’re also just outside of Hitchin. Most libraries do some sort of rhyme time/story reading. My baby is nearly 5 months but loves it even though she’s the youngest😂 we also go to hartbeeps and monkey music which is lovely but obviously a bit of a cost! We’re also trying to slowly get through all the church groups, and M&S cafe do free cake for parents on a Tuesday. The schools museum cafe always have something on too 😊

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If your partner got a prostitute pregnant and then abandoned the child/ran away, what would be your response? Read…

So you were not in a relationship at the time or were about to be in a relationship, he gets the prostitute pregnant.
It’s her fault for not taking their morning after pill.
He tells her straight up that he’s not going to be involved and that she should terminate it.
She says that she won’t terminate and she hopes that he does stick around

So she deliberately gets pregnant, basically traps him

What would be your reaction?
he’s response is:
“She trapped me and it’s her fault for not taking the pill”

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Is it normal to crave my partners 🍆 in me but not sexually

My village is missing

This is a late night vent session obviously but l make it short. My boyfriend and I went to a basketball game in Orlando. His sister was babysitting our son. We come back tonight for her to say he slept for 6 hours and just woke up. Now what type of shit is that. I’ve been feeling lately like no one cares for me or helps out in the way I need them to. People want to see you smile but don’t try to find the cause when you’re not. I’m an only child and my mom lives far. I feel very alone even with the dad involved. I feel alone and like I’m doing it all. I can’t even imagine having another kid which I want but this life here is tough

Sex life is 🫠

Im a little desperate already . Im not a huge fan on blowjobs but I’m doing it because I know he likes it . If he wants it in a car, during work meeting , on the balcony, on the beach everywhere I’m okay to do that . However, I’m not getting anything in return. I mean the last time he went down was more than 1.5 years ago . Okay, I was pregnant maybe he did not feel like doing it while I had a belly as he told me . , but I’m not pregnant already for awhile and I’m always telling him that I want him to go down and he is always having an excuse like “tomorrow “ etc . At the beginning it was funny and I was like okayyy but now it’s not as I’m not enjoying our sex in general . Like the process itself does not make me finish . As I’m breastfeeding and super dry down there and I’m always telling him to put lubricant as it’s hurting me . And sometimes it feels like I am begging for that as he is more comfortable without it , but damn IM NOT OKAY without it . So basically I do not remember when was the last time I have finished during sex . I understand that now with a baby it’s hard to fully enjoy it and have enough time for everything. But still . Just kiss me and put your dick inside me does not seems sexy . To be honest I understand why in marriage women does not want to have sex . Like I feel like it’s already work that I have to do not a pleasure. I’ve been telling him that but as I can see no changes applied 🫠

Friend 🥺

Let’s skip to the good part and just be besties? Text, call, ft.. play dates or just simply hang out. Just want a genuine mommy friend. I’m in NW Indiana but we can be long distance besties tooooo.

Proud mom💕

First day in public wearing underwear & no accidents! We had a play date at my friend house even though I took her about every 1 or 2 hours its the fact she stayed dry, & poop as well💗