Two posts today asked mundane questions and then in the explanation revealed controlling behaviour by their partner.
I see it often and I’m not sure if they want advice on the controlling behaviour and just don’t know how to ask, or if it’s just so normalized to them that they don’t see the red flags.
When people are in domestic violence they usually don't know it's as bad as it is so when they explain it to others it because they don't see the craziness.
What seems obvious and crazy to some of us is other women’s normal unfortunately. Some people are so used to living in chaos and toxicity they are blind to it and dont even realize how it sounds
When people are in domestic violence they usually don't know it's as bad as it is so when they explain it to others it because they don't see the craziness.