Sleep help

My lo does not need soothing to go to sleep, from 6 months he has been great at getting to sleep in his own room. For the last few months we have struggled to get him to sleep through, he now wakes multiple times a night and will now only settle back to sleep in our bed. He just turned 18 months.


He wakes around 6/7 am, he will then either have a morning nap for around an hour/hour half or one in the afternoon for the same time. We put him back to sleep after a bath around 7:30/8

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My girls 18 months, wakes 2/3 times a night and won’t go back off without me or her dad going in and rubbing her hand 🥺
Would love suggestions on what to do x

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since Monday we’ve only had 1/2 wakes ups. I’ve reduced his nap time, he now only has one nap for an hour and a half! And he’s stayed in his own bed!!

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Can anyone shed some light as to why on earth my child doesn’t want to sleep??? My eyeballs are bleeding!!

Never been a good sleeper, but the problems always changing. He’s nearly 9 months old.

Beginning of the month he dropped to 2 naps. We could put him to bed at 7pm and he’d get up for the day at 6am, with multiple wake ups every 2/3 hours.

Now we put him down at 7pm, he can do a good 4/5 hour stretch, but come 1/2am he’s up every hour then getting up for the day at 5am. This then completely messes up the day because I can’t keep him awake long enough to even get to 7pm, let alone later.

He has 2 naps, roughly about 1hr10 each but it changed based on when he wakes and trying to get him to a reasonable bed time.

What could be the reason for this? 6am is fine, but 5am is not 😩😩

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Don’t want to leave my first born😭😭😭

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I’m so sad and anxious about leaving him

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