Formula Feeding

Hello Mamas,

I have been exclusively breastfeeding for 4 months. My supply has been going down. I pumped 2 oz. total today. My baby is drinking 5oz. I start work in February and have no supply frozen for childcare. I’m going to start formula feeding. I feel so guilty though. Does anyone else feel guilty for stopping breastfeeding?

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You did great for 4 months of breastfeeding! Mom guilt is so real but you have to remind yourself 4 months is amazing for your baby!! I don’t make enough and supplemented with formula from day 1 and there was a good 2-3 months I was able to make enough for my baby. And now my baby is drinking more than what I can make and I supplement with formula again. I’m grateful and proud for my ability to give my baby majority of food from breastmilk! And you should too!

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thank you! I’m going to continue to try breast milk but will supplement when needed. Don’t want to stress out about it!

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I will be supplementing/switching to formula very soon as well! My goal is the 6 month mark in Feb. My supply is so up and down. Some pumps are just barely enough and some pumps are low.

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6 months was my goal. It just sucks I’m not producing. I’m gonna start power pumping see if that helps.

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If your body isn’t producing enough then it isn’t producing enough. As long as your baby is getting the right nutrition and taken care of you shouldnt beat yourself up. I felt guilty at first. But then I realized it was more important that baby had enough nutrition and a full belly than having breastmilk. Also you can keep trying to BF/pump while supplementing formula. You dont have to pick just breastmilk or formula. You can do both.

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reddit says power pump once a day for a week and coconut water and/or body armor drinks.

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I’ll try that. Thanks!

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So basically over 1/2 of moms I talk to and this happens more and more the more we chat- look at it this way- at least you got to- Dr who wasn’t mine put me on a blood pressure pill post partum and tanked my supply 2 weeks in… my baby has been on formula since then and she is doing just fine. So I feel like I was robbed? Yes, so I feel guilty, yes but I also did everything I could to get supply- prolactin was virtually in the pits by the time I was tested.

All I’m trying to say is baby is gonna be fine/ just put them in a higher quality one preferably goats milk- they will be fines

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