I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 going on 3 years now. We have a 15 month old baby boy. She keeps trying to bribe me and my boyfriend so she can get him. We already missed his first steps because of her. We set boundaries with her but she doesn’t respect them. So we stopped letting her get him. She gets mad that for the time being we r living with my mom and she gats to see him everyday and she doesn’t. We did live with her for about one to two months but didn’t work out too well. She is more than welcome to come here where I’m living to come see him. All I asked from her was to give me a heads up when she’s coming by. She only lives about 30 ish minutes from me but she always wants my boyfriend to bring our son to her instead of her coming her for a few hours to see him. She has gotten almost every holiday with our son my mother hasnt and she says that we r treating her unfairly. She is manipulative to her son (my boyfriend). She has made him cry so many times. She’s caused arguments between us and made life raising our son so stressful. She keeps throwing up stuff in our faces like how she helped to get his car fixed and how she helped with his divorce( he is 29 I’m 20 we meet when a few months after I turned 18). She always wants us to stop what we r doing for her but she won’t do the same for us it’s always I’m busy I have plans. She is always 90 percent of the time out of state and I dont want my son to be out of state from me not knowing if anything bad is going to happen. She’s the type of person to wait after the fact and after she knows anything then she will say something. She’s treats everyone that’s around her even her husband.
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If she wants to see your baby she needs to make the effort to come to you
last week and this week she’s at her second house they was only home for about two days and then left again she said yesterday I would come up and see him but we r leaving tomorrow