If you breastfeed, do you let your breasts get played with in sex and do they leak

Breasts have become off limits for my husband for years now… jw what others do

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Oh he loves it 😂 it’s such a turn on for him to see me turned on, because if I’m leaking when I wasn’t before then obv I’m aroused. Leaky Booby play over here 💁🏻‍♀️ nothing is off limits to him 🤪 I’ve stopped BF for maybe 2yrs now he’s now 5

u still have leaky boobs years after not bf?

no I meant when I was Bf. I was BF for 3yrs stopped for 2 now. After I stopped a Yr if I squeezed hard enough a lil will come out still but not a stream like when I was bf

oh I was scared for a min😭 I did not want leaky boobs for years lol

I couldn't stand my boobs being touched while I breastfed. Took a while after I weaned to be okay with it

I allowed it
I would wear nursing bra during sex so he could pop them out
However if they started leaking I'd put them away (with breast pads inside the bra)

Im still breastfeeding and I absolutely hate my boobs being touched. Its a no for me. Just feels weird.

Boob grabbing, sure. Nipple play NO. My nips are run ragged. Have accidentally squirted him in the face with milk bc of a boob grab before 😅

I don’t really leak and didn’t with my first either so it isn’t an issue for me. Like one or twice my husband had gotten a little taste of milk while doing boob stuff but he’s got in down when he knows how do it without it happening

Yeah I’m breastfeeding and get so overstimulated from it that I absolutely hate when my partner then tries to touch my boobs and suck my nipples like 🤢 genuinely makes me want to crawl out of my skin. Hope it’ll go back to normal when I stop breastfeeding

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