Recommendations please 🙏🏻

Hi ladies, please can I have your recommendations for:

Next to me crib
Baby bouncer
Breast pump

Anything else you think is a MUST!

Thank you ☺️

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I wouldn’t rush to get a breast pump A. You might not need it (unless you’re planning to exclusively pump) and B. What you need once baby arrives might be different, the electric ones are the best for draining the boobs but wearable are more convenient. So I would wait and see on the breast pump.

I’d agree with Danielle on the pump.
We had the tutti bambini next to me, with my 1st and had no complaints

Agree about the breast pump, if you feel like u need one, get a cheap handheld one at first. Sometimes when wanting to EBF, it just might not work out (happened for me) got a £70+ pump to just use it once 🥲

I’m a FTM too and am looking at the Silver across Lua next to me.

FTM here. Looking at the Silvercross Lunar bedside crib or Tutti Bambini. Baby bouncer I got the Munchkin on special offer at Home Bargains but love the Bjorn Bouncer too and Breast Pump I got the Momcozy M6 - on special offer in Boots.

My daughter had tongue tie so needed bottle to latch initially - can highly recommend the mom cozy s12 plus. Wore it in my sports bra and ended up almost exclusively pumping which helped with my husband sharing the night time feeds. For the next to me, we got a cot where one side could be removed and the height could be adjusted to be in line with our matress. We were really happy with this set up as then as she got older we just added the fourth side and she slept in it until we moved her into her big girl bed. We chose our bouncer for aesthetic reasons only from marketplace... from our experience the brand didn't make a different here although our now 20 month old still sits in it to chill 😂

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Rant/WWYD

My sister (youngest, 24) has two kids, 4 & 1, and i (oldest, 30) just have my one who’s 6mo old right now, so i ask her for advice or call her to vent about things sometimes. Well im tired of her turning around and telling my other family members that I’m “losing my sh*t.” Literally have not lost my sh*t nor have i ever freaked out to her about my baby, i just call her to talk and tell her what stage my baby is in or talk through how im feeling, but she chooses to tell people that im like a complete nutcase or something which worries me that my family is going to start being judgmental about me as a mother or looking at me funny like I’m some fragile ticking time bomb.

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i just want someone to talk to😔😔😔😔

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