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Anyone constantly having arguments with their other half since having a baby?
I’m just exhausted and feel like I’ve lost myself

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How old is baby. The first three months we nearly broke up . Baby is 10 months now and so much better . Hang in there mama

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baby is nearly 3 months. Honestly I just feel like he doesn’t see we are breaking and I fear it will get worse from my end as time goes, I mean I’m beginning to not feel him

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I know the feeling of feeling lost and I’m going through it right now and I wanna bring up my problems to my fiance but I can’t cause he won’t understand what I’m going through

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Ours was very bad too. Unless he’s abusing you I suggest you guys work it out . It gets better mama

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exactly

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Don’t forget your self care. Sure I’m exhausted in the first 3m but going to do a facial or a massage or my nails makes me feel 1000% better. I usually leave baby at home at those times and he gets a couple hrs bonding w the baby while I tend to myself. 3-4m is also when I started seeing friends again, night dates w both friends and my hubby separately, we needed to connect in amongst all the baby moments

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same here. The understanding is key but I guess they just doesn’t.

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no, he’s very sweet and loving, never abused me. Through it all, he still makes and bring me meals when he is home and takes the baby so I can get some rest but it’s just we aren’t the way we use to be around each other. He woke me up to talk it out this morning though

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absolutely, I started doing that from 3rd week in as I was feeling insecure about my body 😔. I still feel a bit insecure about my body but he gives me reassurances but I don’t tend to wanting to hear it prob due to the constant arguments and anger from me. This was never us 😔😔

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