Tips for putting baby down in the day please!

My little girl will usually fall asleep while feeding during the day but the second you try and lie her down in her cot she wakes up and cries until she’s picked up again. I’m constantly nap trapped! Any advice please?

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Not really any tips as such but my little one falls asleep feeding, until last week I couldn’t get him down but he’s done 5 naps in his cot in the last week. All id say is keep persevering, I didn’t do anything different and we’re seeing some little wins!

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Might not work with all babies but with mine I feed her til she’s ‘falling’ asleep and then unlatch her and put her down drowsy but awake - sometimes she fusses for 5/10 mins but usually works x

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I had this so started feeding my daughter in bed in a dark room with white noise. I feed her in the side position and she unlatches and lies flat on the bed. I’m still a bit trapped because I need to stay in the bed or at least the room but she doesn’t need to be physically on me. It’s not quite what you’re wanting but I’ve found it a helpful option.

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I'm trying something new today. I know he doesn't sleep as long on his travel cot and has serious FOMO so getting him to sleep is a nightmare.
So I'm starting it off as a contact nap for the minimum amount of time I know he needs to be asleep for at the time of day (morning tends to last about 30 minutes, lunchtime an hour, then afternoon about 2 hours) in theory this at least guarantees me parts of the day when I can sit down and have cuddles.
Then after the typical amount of time I transfer him into the cot. Figuring if he wakes up then he's been asleep for a good amount of time, if he doesn't I have a few minutes to go to the loo, grab food/drink and maybe even squeeze in a quick tidy up.

Not sure how it's going to go but for me it's the best of both worlds, I get to spend time with him he gets the naps in and I can maybe get a little mummy free time which I need on occasion for my sanity

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I’d love to know as well. I have to contact nap and sometimes have to keep walking with mine as everytime I try to put her down my noisy toddler wakes her up 😂🙈 on a very rare day the both nap at the same time so I just put her down next to me on the sofa I always make sure her bum touches first then the rest of her so she doesn’t wake up. X

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I had thought about trying this - maybe I’ll give it a go and might get her used to sleeping not on me!! Thank you

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that’s always my worry that she’ll get over tired if she wakes up and doesn’t get a decent sleep so that’s a good idea! Hope it’s been working okay for you

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we've done it on and off. I would say a 50% success rate but I managed to get my kitchen clean during one of them and was able to gently wake him on another when he actually slept too long and I needed to get him up as he wouldn't have gone to bed otherwise. It's a process

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