Money saving help please

Ladies how do use save ? Me and my partner have been together 13 years have rented recently moved in with my parents to save for a house we have a 2 year old and some of our outgoings are still high how do you save we feel like we are just paying more and more out

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Have a look at your budget. Look realistically at what is coming in and what is going out. Cancel what you no longer need I.e subscriptions etc. once you know where your money is you can set a realistic budget. I cash stuff so my spare money is withdrawn and all divided into different pots so I build them up over time so when things crop up I have the money there ready such as car maintenance, Christmas, birthdays, etc etc. it takes some getting used to but cash stuffing has been a game changer

Have a look at @stephmylife on instagram she sells a savings plan spreadsheet which is a game changer. It’s only a few pounds but really helps x

if you’ve got a laptop you can make your own. I’ve made and printed my own penny savings challenge and nearly finished that.

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