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Hi,
My daughters dad was late with his payments for two months running so I requested to be switched to collect and pay. This was approved all with two weeks. And was approved yesterday (May 8th). Our old schedule was weekly. I’m just confused as now it says I’m not getting paid till July 29th. So do I now just have two months where he is not paying any child support?😅

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It can take up to 11/12 weeks to set up, so that is correct. If you’re amicable with each other you could ask him to send it to you still for the next 2 months.

even if it just changing over from direct pay? Wow😅 he definitely won’t pay himself, so will may-july be asked to be backpaid or he just gets out of three months of payments?

It’ll be added to arrears and added onto your payments in small amounts. So not really helpful for now but you’ll get it

Or not so small depending on what they’ve calculated

oh okay! I thought it just meant it didn’t have to be paid at all! If it gets added to the arrears then that’s fine! Thank you xx

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