Him "why do you never do your nails?!" Also him "the baby pooped..." as I do my nails. Anybody else? 🫠

I hate doing it at night because that time is limited and I feel like I've got better things to do 😂

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Soooo why didn't he change the baby?

Me : well change him then!

I get my nails done every few weeks as a bit of me time while my hubby has the kids

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cause he's screamish with poop 🤣 he'll do anything but the poop

yea I can't stand the smell and the fake ones seem to be coming off too quickly 😅

if it works for y'all, ok, I guess

Get bio gel 🤷🏼‍♀️

Yeah no. He knows not to bother me when I’m doing my nails. And if he asks midway, then tell him to do it. I ain’t moving. I’m doing my nails 💁🏻‍♀️

Also- gel cures in a minute under light. I only use gel. It doesn’t smudge if I was to be disturbed midway. I don’t use regular polish that air dries coz who has time for that lol. Not meeee. You say he’s squeamish of poop so does that mean you’ve never ever left him w the baby for a few hours while you duck out? Coz what’s he to do then when the baby poops? Wait for you?

I don’t have fake. I have gel polish. I could do it at home (I have my own kits) but I choose to pay for someone else to do it to get me out and away from the kids for a bit! Lasts me 3 weeks keeps my nails from breaking too🤷‍♀️

And I’m sorry if he’s squeamish with poo he needs to get over it now he has a kid. He’s a grown man not a toddler. He’s playing you to shaft his responsibilities !

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I think Motherhood has made me more bitter than I realized…

This is such a ramble but I don’t know where else to put it all.

I’m four months in and I don’t really have hobbies right now. I don’t do anything for myself except maybe doomscrolling or listening to a podcast while I breastfeed my baby. I used to craft and have game nights with friends. Activities that usually are at least 2 hour stretches. Now if I have an hour free my mind immediately goes to baby, or doing something in the house for baby.

And I thought I didn’t mind. Like I knew postpartum could be very mentally consuming. But I think it’s altering how I view people around me and it’s prodding at my relationship with my husband.

He spends most of his time making food for us, looking after our dogs, playing with the baby, ect. But he still has time for his hobby. Spends maybe an hour a night on it. Even adapted to using a bot for shopping for his hobby after a certain incident where we had to have a heart to heart after he left me home alone with the baby for hours during a busy workday (I work from home) to shop for his hobby.

And yet there’s like this little green eyed monster in me that rages every time I know he’s running off to start up the bot. Even though I’m the reason he does it this way.

We took a family trip last weekend to see his best friend and their kids and let them meet the baby. He brought the laptop. He’s always brought a laptop on trips and it’s never been a problem to me before. But one night we both woke up while the baby was still asleep, and he wandered out of the room. I tried to fall back asleep but couldn’t. So I went to the kitchen to try having something warm to drink to settle me. And he was there at the table running the bot from his laptop. I flipped out at him. But there really wasn’t reason to. It’s not like I needed help with the baby and he was ignoring me. He wasn’t avoiding our friends. He was just awake and unable to sleep and found something to do with his time. Yet my snap reaction was “why the hell would you do this on a family trip?”

I don’t know what it is. Maybe it’s the less complete sleep from baby’s middle of the night feed? My brain being just consumed by baby? Maybe I’m not as over that shopping incident as I thought? But I’m just so annoyed at his hobby right now. The green eyed monster thinks “you could be using that time differently” but realistically to do what exactly??? Stare at our baby in the dark???

I spent probably an hour apologizing to him after I snapped. And he’s of course hurt and frustrated because I said some very mean things in the moment.

I don’t want to be this jealous, angry person. But I also don’t know how to find time for myself in this right now outside of basic hygiene. It’s like I’ve forgotten how to be myself, even if just for an hour.

Maybe I need a therapist.

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Been together more than 10 years, but it's been a while since he even seemed remotely interested in me getting on my knees, or vice versa so to speak. I think it was once last year. Must be something I am doing wrong 🤔. Generally everything else in that department is great and we have two young kids with no extra support, so it's quite surprising we can't keep our hands off each other but may need to try new things. It's basically 2 positions each time with some foreplay.

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