how often do you need/want sex?

i’m curious, because personally i need it a few times a week. but i know thats not the case for a lot of you on here

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I used to want it all the time but after my second baby 5 months ago, my sex drive is like.. dead ..

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Depends. Sometimes it's multiple times a week. Other times we go a few weeks/a month plus without.

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I can live without it 🤷🏼‍♀️

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When I’ve had it, I crave it more but if I’ve not had it for a while it doesn’t really bother me 🤣

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It depends my libido is back and came back for vengeance 🤣🤣🤣so a few times a week it was once a week or overt other week

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Used to be every day ttc ruined our sex chemistry.

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My libido went down after I started birth control and now with a toddler its practically nonexistent. I want it once or twice a month.

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What I want and what I do are different. I could honestly go without forever. Not because it’s bad but because I’m just burnt out from life all the time. But I try at least once a week

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It’s important to have that time one on one. Everything else in life is shared with family. Food, clothing (teen daughters) “can I have a sip of your water” car rides… this is different. It’s more than sex. It’s personal alone time. I don’t know that there’s a “right” answer.

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well there’s a difference between personal alone time and sex.. but there is no right answer

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We do once a week, if it was up to me it would be more but I would NEVER go a whole month without it

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