Is it just me???

Does anyone else’s partner/BD not really show an interest in their baby but act like they do everything when other people are around?

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BROOOOOOOSKIIIIII WHYYYY TF ARE THEY LIKE THIS!!! THEY CRAVE THAT "WHAT A GOOD DAD" COMMENT BUT THROW THE BABY AT YOU AS SOON AS YOU LEAVE.

My Bd plays with him but has told me he has no patience when it comes to taking care of him 🥲

LOOOOOOL 😭😂 when I tell you this post made me chuckle!! I was just thinking this afew hours ago
My SO will give people baby/pregnancy facts that I just told him the week before as if he’s a lecturer. He does it with a smug look on his face too. I’ve learnt to just let him be and have his moment in the spotlight for now

Mine just takes more control in public which thank god lol I let him do it while it lasts cus he’ll lose track of one or two and I’ll be over there keeping tabs, relaxing in peace for a moment

Yep my newly narcissistic ex husband will even jump on the phone and be like “it’s so hard being a parent” knowing full well I haven’t seen him allday

Oh and mine loves taking pictures but 5mins later he’s gone

My ex was like that, even after we separated. I’ve now blocked him as it was affecting my son too much

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Good morning! Can anyone relate to this!

My two friends and me have always been close since our early teens. I’m the first to have a baby.

One friend has big house, career and boyfriend

Other out of a long term relationship and being single having fun etc

Before baby we would all hang at my
Apartment, chat eat and just have
Fun.

Now I don’t even get a text to ask how my baby is, how I am. I really thought they would be awesome aunties. But honestly they don’t care.

They meet up a lot to do cool things, which I can’t be upset about as I can’t as I have my baby.

I don’t know I feel sad about it.

Am I over reacting?

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Has anyone else had issues with their friends that aren't pregnant or have kids?

I have a friend at work and we've become really close over the years. But ever since I become pregnant she just doesn't understand anything I'm going through which is fine except for the fact that the past few days I have been exhausted physically and socially. We have been helping another friend out for about a month now and we've had to keep him entertained as he's going through a rough time right now and it's drained me socially . my friend at work is frustrated because I'm not talking a lot and I'm exhausted and she doesn't understand why and I'm just curious if anybody else has had issues with friends that are not going to the same thing or have gone through the same thing as you connecting with you because she's literally mad at me. She stopped talking to me at work today and I just don't understand what to do.