Am I being lazy for wanting to pay a cleaner?

I live with my partner our 1 toddler who does not sleep, my stepchild is here 4 days a week, 2 small dogs and my partners brother also lives with us but he’s lazy af!! I want a cleaner to come out and clean the kitchen, bathroom, windows, main entrance door, skirting boards, doors & frames, banister and hallway floor etc

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I’m dreaming of the day I can afford a cleaner again and when I can I will absolutely be getting one! It’s definitely not a lazy thing to do. Xx

If that’s being lazy, then I’m right there with you. I cannot wait to be able to hire a cleaner. I hate cleaning. My husband hates cleaning. And we’d both rather spend that time doing pretty much anything else.

Why not? I would if I could afford it. Definitely not lazy. Gives you time to rest or catch up on other things.

Who told you it was lazy?

Oh my Christ no.
I have a chaotic step son a baby and a cat and a partner who works 6 days long shifts on the trot and I would LOVE a cleaner. It's just hard to get everything done!!

That’s not lazy, I have 2 kids, step son here 3 times a week, plus my disabled dad moved in as well… I have a cleaner every 2 weeks for 2 hours - it’s been a godsend x

Coming back to this post to say that you made me get a quote for someone to clean our house. I’m planning to book for someone to come around in a few weeks. Hopefully it goes well and we can make it a regular thing.

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Is this normal?

Is it just my husband that does this? He is able to work from home via his computer and in the mornings and evenings he is on there doing his job. When he is done for the day he tends to stay in the room and either play video games or watch something. He will occasionally come out and play with the girls for a few minutes and that’s it but when I really need him he says he is busy. My daughters are both 1 year old now and I am just wondering how much involvement should he have with them now?
Idk if this is the norm or not…..

Saying NO to buying toys etc

5 year old is getting really envious of others. He is obsessed with items that other kids have at school. I am pestered daily to buy these things in a different style when we already have 3 others. I have seen parents just buying stuff their kid likes which I don't necessarily agree with even when i can afford it. How do you deal with it?

Thoughts?

your soon to be brother in law (upon inquiry) told you that only a few kids from the family were attending his wedding because they are over the age cut off..

Tablet for kids

Alright don’t need any negative Nancy’s telling me not to get my 2yo a tablet so if that’s what your gunna do please don’t participate in my poll.

We’re about to move cross country 3+ day trip and my 2yo and 9m hate the car I’m talking scream their heads off till they are out of their seats. We’ve already changed car seats and it didn’t help so I’d like to at least have one entertained and sit next to baby and try and distract her or put her to sleep. Our new car has tvs but since they are rear faced my 2yo can’t see it.

Debating getting her a tablet or dvd player right now on long car rides I end up giving her my phone because I get so overwhelmed sitting in between both of them screaming and crying.

And yes I do bring different toys I bring snacks I play songs try to distract her other ways but for the sake of not losing my mind on this move I think this is best.

-A very overwhelmed and anxious to move mama 😓

Daycare?

Thoughts on daycare?? Truly, I am SCARED to be leaving my kid for daycare. I literally do not trust anyone, not even family (they haven’t given me a reason it’s just trust issues on my end, you never know). He’s turning 3 and I’ve been a sahm the whole time but tbh my man doesn’t make enough for us to move out somewhere more calm . We live in a ‘not so safe’ area in LA and I’m just not used to living here so I just want us to give my son a better life and in order to speed up the process I would have to work.. I do lashes at home and I’d be open to take new clients so I wouldn’t have to look for work but I’m just scared to lose my license 😭

5 month old activities

Hey everyone my baby is 5 months old and I want to reduce/cut screen time as I have read up on how bad it is what activities did people do to keep their baby entertained. Thank you in advance.