Venting

I had one friend (long distance) but she has kids of herself so it was all understandable. Our friendship went sideways due to some differences until now, I don’t really have that much friends. My first child, I got induced also due to high blood pressure + preeclampsia .

I think it’s heart breaking how many friends you lose when pregnant let alone when you have your little one :( I lost every single friend! Similar to you I also had anemia after a liver disorder during pregnancy and then blood loss. I was living in third person, I had no energy and felt heartbroken to lose friends. Now I’m 3 years post partum and so glad to not have those people in my life. True friends don’t treat you like that, it’s hard now but in the long run it’s a blessing

I lost a friend I’ve known since middle school about 6 months into my pregnancy. It was the most odd thing ever, she was the first person I told. She seemed so excited over the phone, I literally called her right after I took my test. I’m not even sure what exactly happened, but I guess it’s for the best and I’d rather not have those type of people around my son.