Fussy/Picky Eater

My toddler boy is 20 months old now. Refusing to eat most of the things I offer. Eating patterns regressed since sometime now. 6 months ago, i was blessed with another baby boy. Dairy Diet (mainly, cow's milk) cutting his milk got him eating a few nibbles here and there and we are again back to square one of not eating at all especially when down with flu. Tips for picky eaters, please.

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No tips but we're in the same boat

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We are the same exact same and I cannot figure out why! Maybe it’s just a stage x

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Just keep offering without any pressure. It can take a lot of exposure until some toddlers are willing to even try food. It's also a good habit to not offer an alternative (within reason) if they don't like the meal. I have two toddlers and every night at dinner they're told (especially my 3yo who's better at verbalising that she doesn't want to eat something) if they don't want to eat it that's fine, but there's nothing else to eat. Otherwise they learn very quickly that if they say no, they'll get what they want. My 20mo son pretty much eats anything, but my daughter has started refusing to eat some meals, I don't pressure her to eat it, I just say it's there if she gets hungry and 9 times out 10 she'll eventually eat it, but if she doesn't she'll go to bed with no dinner.

It's normal to lose their appetite when sick, as long as they're getting plenty of fluids it's fine. When not sick however, don't offer milk as an alternative, it'll fill him up and doesn't offer the variety in nutrients that's needed

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Unfortunately, it’s a toddler/developmental thing

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Is this normal?

Is it just my husband that does this? He is able to work from home via his computer and in the mornings and evenings he is on there doing his job. When he is done for the day he tends to stay in the room and either play video games or watch something. He will occasionally come out and play with the girls for a few minutes and that’s it but when I really need him he says he is busy. My daughters are both 1 year old now and I am just wondering how much involvement should he have with them now?
Idk if this is the norm or not…..

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Saying NO to buying toys etc

5 year old is getting really envious of others. He is obsessed with items that other kids have at school. I am pestered daily to buy these things in a different style when we already have 3 others. I have seen parents just buying stuff their kid likes which I don't necessarily agree with even when i can afford it. How do you deal with it?

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Thoughts?

your soon to be brother in law (upon inquiry) told you that only a few kids from the family were attending his wedding because they are over the age cut off..

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Tablet for kids

Alright don’t need any negative Nancy’s telling me not to get my 2yo a tablet so if that’s what your gunna do please don’t participate in my poll.

We’re about to move cross country 3+ day trip and my 2yo and 9m hate the car I’m talking scream their heads off till they are out of their seats. We’ve already changed car seats and it didn’t help so I’d like to at least have one entertained and sit next to baby and try and distract her or put her to sleep. Our new car has tvs but since they are rear faced my 2yo can’t see it.

Debating getting her a tablet or dvd player right now on long car rides I end up giving her my phone because I get so overwhelmed sitting in between both of them screaming and crying.

And yes I do bring different toys I bring snacks I play songs try to distract her other ways but for the sake of not losing my mind on this move I think this is best.

-A very overwhelmed and anxious to move mama 😓

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Daycare?

Thoughts on daycare?? Truly, I am SCARED to be leaving my kid for daycare. I literally do not trust anyone, not even family (they haven’t given me a reason it’s just trust issues on my end, you never know). He’s turning 3 and I’ve been a sahm the whole time but tbh my man doesn’t make enough for us to move out somewhere more calm . We live in a ‘not so safe’ area in LA and I’m just not used to living here so I just want us to give my son a better life and in order to speed up the process I would have to work.. I do lashes at home and I’d be open to take new clients so I wouldn’t have to look for work but I’m just scared to lose my license 😭

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Struggling

My husband works and does so much for me and my baby girl. However I get annoyed every time he hops on a video game he usually plays for 1-2 hrs if she's still awake and has like 3+hrs of free time once she goes to sleep (i co/contact sleep). The last time I was able to have actual free time was last month when I tried to turn some onesies into shirts for baby girl to sleep in- and I wasn't able to finish them and haven't picked them up since lol. The only free time I get is while she's napping right next to me where I can't move an inch or breathe too deeply or she'll wake up, or when I shower. Crafting used to be my outlet and now if I were ever to tell him that I need to craft I don't even know what I would do or where to start I just sit there and stare.... just losing myself and I'm struggling with it. Does anyone else feel the same way? What do I do?

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