BDSM to introduce in marriage

I find myself more and more desiring a BDSM sex life (at least) specifically around being a submissive. But I don't think my husband is that kind of person for dominating to be natural. Like he makes a bit of a joke of things when I ask for it to be this way, but I feel I need this to be sexually fulfilled. I'm looking for some good tips to try to mould things more in this way in the bedroom. Neither of us have been with anyone experienced in this domain before

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There are some online quizzes to see if you have any kinks. Is he interested in tying you up or giving orders? I like to pull hair and degrade my partner through name calling. Maybe start with something light like just tying your hands behind your back or him ordering you to give oral. Hope this helps

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