Pointless chat.

Whats the point in this app if people are going to say hello have half a conversation then just ghost messages. What's the point in reaching out in first place just to have a convo that goes nowhere... just shows you what a waste of time people really are on here.
They say looking to meet mums ect ect when they ain't. It's like the female version of tinder. You'd think people would be nice but then I remember 99.9% of females either feel threatened and just end up in pointless friendship with no trust of anything genuine these days anyway. Legit have zero faith in having a normal adult friendship in this day and age no1 is genuinely nice... also don't say maybe there busy. We all know that old chestnut.

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I totally agree with you it's so annoying. I don't really bother with messaging anyone as I know that this will happen sooner or later. So sad tbh

Be different for them if it was a male they were chatting too.. honestly pointless app for finding mum friends.. disappointed in society and how it's becoming

Remember most folk are busy mums and lift gets in the way of using social media like this sometimes. My mum friends take days to reply sometimes and that’s just life, it’s hard trying to get back to everyone at times and apps are not a priority for most. Then they might feel they’ve left it too long to reply when they get round to it. It doesn’t mean they are bad people. Everyone has things going on and it doesn’t mean they’re not genuine. You are expecting a lot of strangers and you sound pretty angry at women.

Read your post..You sound incredibly bitter and you won’t make friends with that attitude. Not trying to be mean but honestly you won’t.

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Has anyone else had issues with their friends that aren't pregnant or have kids?

I have a friend at work and we've become really close over the years. But ever since I become pregnant she just doesn't understand anything I'm going through which is fine except for the fact that the past few days I have been exhausted physically and socially. We have been helping another friend out for about a month now and we've had to keep him entertained as he's going through a rough time right now and it's drained me socially . my friend at work is frustrated because I'm not talking a lot and I'm exhausted and she doesn't understand why and I'm just curious if anybody else has had issues with friends that are not going to the same thing or have gone through the same thing as you connecting with you because she's literally mad at me. She stopped talking to me at work today and I just don't understand what to do.

Spicy chat

Anyone up for a spicy chat, I’m horny

STD rates and body count

Saw an interesting video and I’d love to hear everyone’s thoughts on this topic!

So std rates are at an all time high as we all know. Do you think the mindset that body count doesn’t matter has contributed to the significant increase of STDs and HIV?

Secondly if someone says that body count doesn’t matter do you believe they are less likely to practice safe sex compared to people who believe in more traditional values?

I can’t put all the combinations in the poll so feel free to comment just yes/no answers

(If you’re going to reply please keep your responses respectful and polite.)

Friends

I’ve been on this app for almost 5 years now I still can’t find one friend. I just need a friend. I’m so fucking lonely.

What happened to Zainab

Hey guys haven’t been on here in a sec! Just come to realise I haven’t seen any posts / comments from Zainab (I’m sure that’s her name 🫠) hoping she is ok , I’m sure she was a Mod but can’t seem to find her anymore 🤔

If your partner got a prostitute pregnant and then abandoned the child/ran away, what would be your response? Read…

So you were not in a relationship at the time or were about to be in a relationship, he gets the prostitute pregnant.
It’s her fault for not taking their morning after pill.
He tells her straight up that he’s not going to be involved and that she should terminate it.
She says that she won’t terminate and she hopes that he does stick around

So she deliberately gets pregnant, basically traps him

What would be your reaction?
he’s response is:
“She trapped me and it’s her fault for not taking the pill”