Phantom kicks

It’s just so damn rude how my body is literally bleeding out every bit of my heart and then randomly gives me phantom kicks

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I had my miscarriage over 3 weeks ago and I’m still getting them phantom kicks at the bottom of my stomach. The little flutters. 💔 it’s so fucking rude.
I was picking baby up from hospital last week and my body was going crazy with phantom kicks. 😭💔

So sorry you’re going through this. My thoughts are with you and your family 💔

I love that you agree with me bc people look at me weird when I say it. It’s so fucking rude. lol this is rude and it’s rude when I sat there thinking I was almost out of the first trimester but my pregnancy didn’t even make it half way through it. Like I spent 4 weeks thinking I was making a baby and having allllllll the damn symptoms but nope. Not a thing being made in there.

facts! Literally the same here!!!! I can never explain this heartbreak to anyone else but the day you get told baby has no heartbeat and then you’re home having symptoms, can’t cook, having cravings and you feel so silly saying I’m pregnant. Like it’s horrible.

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