I know this is soooo weird to talk about but I need advice. So I’ve been dating this guy for 6 months now and he just told me that he’s scared to have sex with me because he’s uncircumcised and he didn’t know if I was going to be okay with it. I told him I don’t have any experience but I still accept him for him. Is it just like a regular penis? Or do I have to do things differently?? Can I get an infection? (Yes I’m American and I rarely see an uncircumcised man)
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My man does. It’s normal just has extra skin. When they are soft the tip is covered basically and when they are hard it isn’t covered so looks “ normal “ you don’t have to do anything different. Infection from what it being uncircumcised? No. I’ve never had an infection and I’ve been with my man 7 years.

Long as hes clean its no different

It’s no different 🤣

As long as he has good hygiene you won't get an infection just because he's uncircumcised. I'm in Australia and its more common to come across an uncircumcised one than one that is(from my experience).
It really isn't that much different at all but it has more movement when you stroke it. The foreskin kind of moves up and down as you do. (Did you ever have one of those water snake toys? The way that if you move that up and down in your hand it kind if gives a similar vibe 🤣) also when sucking it if you're into that move it down to make sure the whole head is out for some attention and there's a little almost raised triangle bit underneath where the foreskin connects and it drives them mad 😏
In terms of having sex you won't even be able to to tell more just with foreplay stuff

lol. 😂 oh my God, no I love me an uncut man. They are more sensitive and great lovers. Do not go into the situation thinking that something is wrong with him because he is exactly how God created him. And no, you will not get any infections. My advice is to play with it and get comfortable. Also just take a Google trip and educate yourself babe. Nothing to worry about.

Many women know which one feels better .gigidi 😁!

Americans are so weird with their obsession with circumcising babies without medical necessity. In other countries it is not as common. So over half the guys I’ve been with, my husband included is uncircumcised. It’s really no different if they clean themselves properly. Like with any relationship, practice safe sex, get tested, and you’ve nothing to worry about.

It's pretty much the same. My man has extra foreskin that even when he is hard he still has some coverage. No worries about infection or anything... Sex for me is a lot more enjoyable with an uncircumcised partner. Just make sure they have good hygiene, but that goes for any partner.

I prefer an uncircumcised penis. More sensitive. Less lube required. Its great.
If a man has poor hygiene...his junk will be gross if hes circumcised or not

In the UK basically no one is circumcised unless there was a medical need so that's a tiny percentage. I'm guessing you're American 😆 It's the same.

It looks like a tube worm and you can’t change my mind 🤣 but works just fine , just some extra skin when soft, and moves more.
And yes, Americans have witnessed uncircumcised guys *facepalm lol* fun fact& idc either way.
Thank you all sooo much I was scared bc he’s insecure about it and I wanted him to feel better but I did hear that sex can feel better with an uncut man lol but if yall saying he’s more sensitive does that mean he can’t last as long ?

Lmfao adorable question. It’s a regular penis. It’s the original penis intact in fact. Circumcised penises are ugly & strange in my opinion.

it's literally how they were created, I don't understand the cosmetic obsession of cut p.
It's at it’s most natural design.

People have different lasting power whether they're cut or uncut. If hes nervous and its been a while he might not last as long for a couple of times and then will probably get stamina back (give him a couple of chances if hes a bit quick). But also if he's insecure on it he's probably going to make extra sure that it's good for you to try distract you from it or show you that he can fuck you and make you feel just as good as any cut man

Hello! The only difference is you may need to gently pull back the foreskin. He might do it for you!
You’re no more likely to get an infection that with a circumcised man as far as I’m aware, but I’d love anyone who disagrees to give me a source of where their information came from so I can read ☺️
Uncircumcised is natural and how men are made biologically so it’s all good!

Sex will definitely feel better for HIM because the skin protecting the sensitive part of his penis is in tact! Often men without foreskin lose sensation there.

i personally prefer uncircumcised, its normal and shouldn’t be an issue unless the person had bad hygiene. Americans do this the most, but other countries its normal to be uncut!! sometimes you dont even notice the difference. l

It is different it’s better my man had better sensations

As long as the person is clean there should not be an issues. I know many men in US who did not get snipped for one reason or another.

Make sure he cleans it correctly, but it’s better for you and it feels better in my opinion. It is scientifically better for you because the foreskin on a male‘s penis helps the glide into the vaginal canal.

All of these comments are on point! If I had to add my opinion, I'd say uncut is so much easier to work with! I had an uncut ex, and it was much easier for hand/blowjobs. I just have to put extra effort in for my forever partner, as he is snipped. Also, I honestly love that someone has asked, because I sure haven't had the chance to make this point anywhere else - respectfully 😂

I like uncut over cut and thankfully that’s what I married! As long as he has good hygiene you won’t get any infections.

The bigger issue is that he’s insecure about it. 🙁
do you mind me asking how it was easier? Like does it still feel hard or is it easier to suck on/ jerk off

It does still feel hard, the head doesn't entirely, (hence turtle neck references), until you pull the skin down, exposing the head, which is just like any other various penis. It's like a natural fleshlight?? I hope that makes sense! 😅 If you're not very comfortable getting too sloppy with your own saliva, having that extra layer makes all of the difference. Silly enough, I'm fairly insecure about spitting on it, and it is so hard to jerk off without any type of lube/liquid. Think of it as a natural accessory for pleasure, honestly. While giving head, you can give more pleasure with stroking while focusing on the tip with your mouth, without getting too sloppy. I mean, some guys prefer more of a sloppy blow, AND if you want to get sloppy with it, you still can! My ex was hella insecure about it as well, but it's probably because most guys in the US go through puberty in school feeling like the odd one out and teenagers don't have a sense of what could be, only what should be 🤷♀️

If and when the time comes, you could help him feel better about it, and mention how it makes it much more pleasurable for the both of you. Him having the extra stimulus, and you having the extra 'toy' for the both of you. Hope that all helps!

It is the same except extra skin. In my experience the extra skin kinda gets in the way sometimes. But overall I like it.

My man is uncircumcised. Let me tell you. It's bigger better and you'll be wetter. Nothing to be afraid of. He can teach you how to handle it too. Nothing gross about it. It's actually more natural! Enjoy!

i prefer whole men. uncut is way better! every circumcised man i’ve been with was gross and the experience was always terrible lol :/

It’s the exact same in everything that you do with it. Honestly when they are hard you won’t even be able to tell they have a hoodie