Husband wants me to watch porn during sex. I don’t want to and he forces me. What do you think?

I’m so sorry girly, you truly deserve so much better! If he doesn’t respect you and your boundaries and you’ve made that very clear, I would consider moving forward with getting yourself in the position where you can separate or divorce. If it’s financials holding you back, start stashing cash or maybe a side hustle. I’m praying for you and your happiness!!

Then change your circumstances - plan to leave. There is nothing you can say or do to change him as a person.

Run 🚩 🚩 🚩

I agree with Maggie and Jess. He has to respect you and your boundaries. Life is too short to be unhappy.

How long has he been doing this? And how long have you been together? That’s definitely shtty and he should respect your decision not to do that with him.

I would suggest he goes to sex addiction meetings as there might be a deeper reason why he wants to do this continuously. They may allow him to open up on reasons why he enjoys that form of sex play. Men tend to be exposed to porn at a very young age and it does affect them in the long term. Don’t be hard on yourself. You are not the problem. He’s got some learning and growing to do.

Definitely abusive and he's a p.o.s

Turn the tables, tell him you want him to watch gay porn while you’re having sex and see what he says. I’m sure he wouldn’t like it and then maybe he’ll see the issue in what he’s doing to you! Sounds like an idiot x

There are no types of circumstances that will make a woman stay in a marriage where she's not happy. It's either you get up and leave with what you got, or you deal with this type of abuse from your husband.

Begin leaving slowly. Make a plan, find financial help. There’s charities for women that have financial advisors that just help you plan to leave. It’s all confidential. Ask chat gpt where your local one is so it doesn’t even go on your search history x

You said no and he forced you. I don't need to read any more, that's not acceptable. 🚩🚩🚩

Stop letting him do anything with you and like everyone said... if you have a million other reasons, do your best to try leave him

Im sorry you are in this situation. Its really tocic, this is enough reason to divorce and you say you have also other reasons.
If i were you i would focus everything to get to the position of being able to leave him. Getting out of there should be your top priority. Seek help from womens organizations, there must be a way for you to get a hold of your life and leave. ♥️

im so sorry thats awful I would leave. this is abuse. he is so desensitized he doesn't even realize how wrong he is . in my opinion porn cheating, inviting others in your bedroom. imagine you forcing him to watch other men while you lust after them while having sex with him!

Stop having sex with him. Do not give him ANYTHING he wants. If he cant act like a husband and have basic respect for his WIFE, then he doesnt deserve to have a wife.

He'd rather see me hurt

Everything is wrong with that sentence

He needs help

That’s abuse. Leave him when you can, this isn’t a good environment to raise your child in if he’s this toxic towards you.

I’m sorry you are having to put up with this. Honestly, I’d strop sleeping with him. I’m with the others who said you need to get out of that relationship.

I would get away from him as quickly as I could, there’s women’s refuges and temporary council accommodation available for women who are in domestically abusive relationships…

I see you're in Ohio. Pm someone if you're more comfortable not sharing in this thread where and I'm sure that someone will be able to help you find local resources