Me and my husband did a quickie in our room today while our toddler was in the living room for only 5 mins. He was watching tv but i definitely feel bad because we always wait till night time to make sure they are asleep. So do you…
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Personally I don’t think j would be in the mood while looking after my baby but As long as your baby is fine by themselves for 5 minutes and can’t see or hear you it’s okay don’t feel bad

Girl sex is important, ofc there’s seasons of your life where you just won’t be able to have sex and that’s fine. But in my opinion and experience, a healthy sex life aids a relationship! Get that quickly in, if you’re both in the mood, your toddler won’t notice and then both his parents will be happier after 🤷♀️

I think as long as everyone is happy, safe and cared for then it’s okay. I personally get really paranoid that I’ll traumatize him (I think I’m projecting my own trauma 🫠) by having sex where he can see/hear etc even though he’s only 4 months old. It’s my personal thing but I might loosen up a bit as he gets older and is entertained in a different area for a while.

Little one was watching tv and content. I think as long as they can’t see or hear you, it’s fine. We would do that too sometimes, just to get a little connection before the day went on especially if we knew one of us would be gone in the evening.

We mostly end up doing it in the morning before she wakes up. Sometimes at night. Or during nap time. I feel like we’re too busy during the day to get it in. If y’all can do it while he’s awake, then you go girl! You do what you think is right.