Have y’all heard of the Huckleberry app?!

Just here to say I’ve been using it since she was born and now that she’s 2 months old we are able to use the sweet spot feature (which does require a subscription) but genuinely it has been such a game changer and it is SPOT on with her nap time predictions. It’s so freaking helpful for me to know exactly when she’ll start getting sleepy and take her naps and it’s helping me plan the day out so much better / plan her wake time activities and then work on sleep hygiene (putting her down drowsy/singing her to sleep next to me rather than having to bounce and rock her to sleep, etc)

Anyway just here to say it’s AMAZING and will help y’all get more sleep!! Don’t pay for the top tier (customized sleep schedule) cuz Reddit parents said it’s not worth it but the mid tier gives you the sweet spot feature and it’s AMAZING.

Feel free to ask me questions 🥰

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Yes! I have been using it since my baby was 3 weeks old and she it’s 6 weeks old now and not only nap prediction it’s super accurate but I can start seeing my baby’s patterns on the app summary, like I know she will always sleep from 10pm to 4am ect

I just started the sweet spot last week and it’s so helpful! I love getting to track her sleep. I have been using the app since birth just recently upgraded.

Same here! I’m loving it. I went to sig. up for the Plus membership after my 2-week trial and it told me I get a discount because I have a paid membership with Peanut! I think I spent 80-something dollars on the PREMIUM annual subscription as a result.

Have used it for all 6 of my kids and I LOVE it.

Honestly I was just thinking about how to put a rythem in my two month old as I’m the main parent and my partner works and I have no family around I’m reaching breakdown stage where my body is so sleep deprived I faint when I stand up so I hope this app will work

I love the app. It showed me the best feeding times/ a somewhat schedule so my 2 month old sleeps 7pm-4am 2+ weeks now!!! I've tried offering a late bottle bc everything online says to feed baby after 4 or 5 hours but she won't drink one🤣❤️ eats 28-30oz a day in formula. Thankfully I didn't need the sleep spot thing. It's my 2nd baby so i remember it's eat, play, sleep, every 2 hours diaper during the day & every 3 or 4 feed but she's going every 3 hours from 4am-7pm

Following cause I’m thinking about trying it

I love the SweetSpot feature, is sooo spot on. My baby is 12 weeks, now I am starting to think about sleep hygiene, we currently rock him to sleep. how was the first time you put her down drowsy to sleep. I have tried a couple of times, and just wakes himself up 🙄

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I think Motherhood has made me more bitter than I realized…

This is such a ramble but I don’t know where else to put it all.

I’m four months in and I don’t really have hobbies right now. I don’t do anything for myself except maybe doomscrolling or listening to a podcast while I breastfeed my baby. I used to craft and have game nights with friends. Activities that usually are at least 2 hour stretches. Now if I have an hour free my mind immediately goes to baby, or doing something in the house for baby.

And I thought I didn’t mind. Like I knew postpartum could be very mentally consuming. But I think it’s altering how I view people around me and it’s prodding at my relationship with my husband.

He spends most of his time making food for us, looking after our dogs, playing with the baby, ect. But he still has time for his hobby. Spends maybe an hour a night on it. Even adapted to using a bot for shopping for his hobby after a certain incident where we had to have a heart to heart after he left me home alone with the baby for hours during a busy workday (I work from home) to shop for his hobby.

And yet there’s like this little green eyed monster in me that rages every time I know he’s running off to start up the bot. Even though I’m the reason he does it this way.

We took a family trip last weekend to see his best friend and their kids and let them meet the baby. He brought the laptop. He’s always brought a laptop on trips and it’s never been a problem to me before. But one night we both woke up while the baby was still asleep, and he wandered out of the room. I tried to fall back asleep but couldn’t. So I went to the kitchen to try having something warm to drink to settle me. And he was there at the table running the bot from his laptop. I flipped out at him. But there really wasn’t reason to. It’s not like I needed help with the baby and he was ignoring me. He wasn’t avoiding our friends. He was just awake and unable to sleep and found something to do with his time. Yet my snap reaction was “why the hell would you do this on a family trip?”

I don’t know what it is. Maybe it’s the less complete sleep from baby’s middle of the night feed? My brain being just consumed by baby? Maybe I’m not as over that shopping incident as I thought? But I’m just so annoyed at his hobby right now. The green eyed monster thinks “you could be using that time differently” but realistically to do what exactly??? Stare at our baby in the dark???

I spent probably an hour apologizing to him after I snapped. And he’s of course hurt and frustrated because I said some very mean things in the moment.

I don’t want to be this jealous, angry person. But I also don’t know how to find time for myself in this right now outside of basic hygiene. It’s like I’ve forgotten how to be myself, even if just for an hour.

Maybe I need a therapist.

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Have y’all heard of the Huckleberry app?!

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