If you're on birth control does your partner finish inside you?

I'm religious with my birth control and 100% done having babies. My husband always pulls out unless I have my menstrual disc in but I really love when he finishes inside me. He's so scared of accidentally getting me pregnant. Idk how I can convince him we're fine. And he won't have a vasectomy..I've been asking for years now.

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Even if he’s snipped he still won’t cum inside. It’s not just the pregnancy I’m avoiding. It’s the changes in vaginal PH that happens when it touches semen, and regularly enough. (We have sex 2-3* a week if he came inside every time my vag will start to show signs of ph imbalance, for someone who’s getting semen inside once a month it might not change things) Vag is PH around 3, semen starts from 7+. It’s a known fact that semen changes vag PH and I’m not risking that, as someone who hasn’t had any vag problems in over a decade (thrush, UTI or VB)

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My husband does, but I have an IUD so the risk is incredibly low. And I've never had any pH issues. This is going to be very individual though, because every woman's body is different.

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Every. Single. Time.
And always has. Never had any issues (infertility meant no oopsies) but no other issues either and before having our daughter, we were very regular - pretty much every other day

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No because my 2nd baby was created on birth control. If I was back on the normal pill then maybe. But not while I’m on the mini pill. It’s too picky

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Hi! I got pregnant while religiously taking my birth control. I was on medication for almost a year leading up to my spine surgery (not antibiotics). I didn’t know, and doctors didn’t inform me that the certain medication I was on can counter act the birth control. My OB said the medication made my liver enzymes break the birth control down too quickly basically making it ineffective. I found out three days after my spine surgery we are expecting. 🫣 Nothing is 100% and just be informed what you are putting in to your body and if it can have any effects on ur bc.

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